Wiped off semen and pregnancy Posted: 04-14-08 21:53pm
I am in some desperate need of some
advice. I know there are a lot of
questions like these that go around from
paranoid girls and let me just tell you
that I am one of them. My boyfriend and I
engage in all sexual activities EXCEPT for
intercourse. And our genitals have never
come in contact with eachother except
through clothing, but I try to avoid that
because my fear is beyond what it should
be..I have a fear of it seeping through my
clothes which I know is virtually
impossible! However, last month we messed
around about 3 days after my period
ended..I gave him a hand job and he
ejaculated on my hand. Right after that I
wiped it off really well with a towel, and
then about 10 minutes later with that same
hand (which was dry) I barely touched
myself on the right outer lip of my vagina
because I had an itch. It was more like a
pinch really...but I immediately realized
it was that had that previous had the cum
on it so I quickly pulled it away. i
didn't say anything to my boyfriend
because I didn't want to freak him out,
because he gets SO tired of me obsessing
over petty things like that. Anyways, this
month i DID get my period, and it was on
time, but just a tad earlier. My periods
never come on a specific date though, just
in a general time area. Anyways, the
period I experienced was much lighter than
my normal flow, I would stop and start
bleeding a lot. After 3 days I thought I
was completely done and then SURPRISE when
I looked down it had gone through my
pants..gross I know. then the last few
days I just had brown discharge and
spotting. Normal signs leading up to
period and everything, just the flow was
really funky! Now my question is, I've
read some places that you can still get
your period while your pregnant and just
never know that you are. So even though I
had mine I'm still obsessing over the fact
of "WHAT IF?" like what if what happened
that night put me at risk. I've been
stressing about it for a long time so I'm
wondering if that is what caused my period
to be lighter? Now I'm starting to feel
nauseous in the mornings..and waking up
with diarrhea..but it could be due to
stress and the constant worry that I'm
having. I know what a lot of you are going
to say that the only way I can get
pregnant is by having intercourse, and
unprotected, but I keep researching and
seeing all these scenarios where that's
just not the case and I don't want that to
be me! So someone please tell me if I'm
making too far of a stretch here...and
offer me your best advice thanks so much
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Keeba88
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Posted: 04-14-08 22:05pm
You don't have anything to worry about.
Especially if your hand was dry. As soon
as they hit the air they die, and
especially if your hand was dry.... YOU
HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT HUN! So stop stressing
and you can get rid of the diarrhea and
nausea!
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trijos21
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Posted: 04-14-08 22:46pm
yea im 100% with keeba...no possible way!
Dont worry!
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krystineM
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Posted: 04-15-08 14:23pm
You are not pregnant, your hand was dry.
Your period came, which means, that all
the nurtiens that feed a fetus when an egg
is fertlized has been washed away. That's
why we get periods. It was loghter or
weird because you were stressing yourself
out. But it came, so you are not pregnant,
and there is no chance you could have
become pregnant when your hand was dry.
When women are pregnant, they dont
continue to get their period, they get
something called Break-through Bleeding.
Different than a period, OR they get
implantation bleeding for a couple days.
The discharge was from your period.
Some women who obsess over thinking they
are pregnant, actually GIVE themselves the
symptoms of pregnancy, when they aren't
pregnant at all. Which is what it sounds
like here. Your are over reacting about
this, if your hand had wet semen on it,
there could have been a chance, but it was
wiped off and dry and the chances of
getting pregnant that way -if it was wet-
are very very low.
You should get on some birth control, so
you dont worry about this.
OR abstain from having sex at all, until
you know all the risks of getting pregnant
and how to engage in safe sex.
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thanks so much
