Am i just being overly hormonal? Posted: 04-04-08 20:53pm
Ok, so before like last month, My
boyfriend and me were together all the
time, and he called me alot, and now since
I've been pregnant, it seems like were not
spending as much time together, and he
never calls me ever I'll call him and hes
sitting around playing video games, he'll
call if I call him first bawling my eyes
out. Or hes on the internet an I tell him
I've been crying and still am, he gets
upset when I cry and will call me, and
talk to me, and when we're together hes
really cuddly and sweet and stuff. But
gets irritated if I mention that he
doesn't call me anymore. I know he
wouldn't cheat n me. And he likes o spend
time with his guy friends. But still when
hes home it wouldn't hurt to talk to me.
And I know he's excited about the baby, he
tells me that and told his brother in law
that he was excited. Do you think maybe
hes just nervous and doesn't want to think
about it too much? Or do you think he's
having trouble being around me now that
I've been so emotional? Or what? What do
you guys think?
my b/f was the same way towards me during
the first 5 months of my pregnancy and i
cried about it a lot. i wanted to talk all
the time but at home he would kinda ignore
me. idk why but he snapped out of it in
the last few months of pregnancy. maybe he
had a hard time realizing he had to grow
up and become a real man for this child
& needed a ton of time to adapt to the
idea of becoming a father. it was rough
for me tho with him nt speaking to me much
and being hooked to his video games. made
me feel lonely, sad, upset and left out. i
hope the best for you and your man, maybe
he needs sometime to cope. my man sure did
& when he finally came around, things
were great. oh and he did have a real hard
time with me being emotional. he was
always afraid hed hurt my feelings because
i was always so up and down, so he had
avoided me for a bit, glad he snapped out
of that!
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Amethyst_Butterfly
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Posted: 04-06-08 03:02am
I hope so, he says he's happy about it,
but is uncomfortable talking about it. And
he just never calls like he used to, I
hope he comes around more, hes the one who
was telling me not to be sad that I could
be happy. That he was happy.
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