jem94
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Am I Pregnant at 14 ?
Posted: 06-02-08 13:49pm
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Okay so i'm 14 and i had sex about 3 days
ago he didnt have a condom on and he said
he cum, cause he forgot 2 pull out. Now
i'm worried i'm pregnant im not sure what
to do. I know ill what to keep it if i am
and i know its a big resposability the dad
well i dont know what he'll do. But i know
he doesnt want to be a dad at this age hes
only 14 too. What should i do. I mean i
dont know if i am pregnant yet but if i
am.. what should i do?
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Ingi
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Posted: 06-02-08 14:09pm
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You should relax and not worry about it
until you miss your period.
Do not EVER have sex with ANYONE without a
condom. Condoms are free at family
planning centers (Planned Parenthood).
How would you financially support a child?
Do your parents know you are sexually
active? If you think you are pregnant you
should discuss it with them.
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krystineM
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Posted: 06-02-08 14:50pm
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my question is exactaly like Ingi's.
How can a 14 year old raise a child? You
dont have a job, no financial stability,
your parents provide everything for you,
are they going to be obligated to provide
for you AND a baby too? Your not done
school yet...have you tlaked to your
parents about this? A pregnancy is not
like playing house.
You should seriously talk to your parents
about this now.
And use condoms and maybe get on birth
control too.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 06-06-08 17:16pm
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Please wait out a few weeks to test then
come back for questions.
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Reptar
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Posted: 06-06-08 18:40pm
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You shouldn't be having sex with anyone
without protection. I don't even know why
you would agree to having sex with someone
without protection. There is no way you're
going to be able to care for a child on
your own at 14, and almost no chance that
any 14 year old guy will stick around.
Test in about 2 weeks when you miss a
period and then take your time deciding
what to do. You should really abstain from
sex until you have protection, and get
yourself on the pill. Think of what it'll
be like having to tell your parents you're
pregnant and going to school with a huge
belly if need any incentive to start
protecting yourself.
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manuftw82
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Posted: 06-06-08 21:30pm
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Test in like 2 weeks. I know what's done
is done but for the future please invest
in some condoms.
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daslautlacht
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Posted: 06-09-08 09:00am
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| Ingi
wrote: | Condoms are free at family
planning centers (Planned Parenthood).
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At my planned parenthood center they are 3
for a quarter 
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 06-09-08 09:46am
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At mine they are free.
Definitely invest in some condoms. Not
only will they protect you from pregnancy,
but they will also protect you from STDs.
Even if you think you are safe from them,
you never know until you and your partner
are both tested. Even if your partner
only had sex with ONE other person besides
yourself who he claims was safe, you never
know. That one other could have had sex
with 3 others, one of which who has an STD
and would pass it on. It really is
something extremely serious that you have
to consider when having sex. You may
think it won't happen to you, but it can.
Please, please always wear a condom. It
will protect you and your partner from
both STDs and from unwanted pregnancies.
If this ever happens again in the future,
you can go with a friend who is 18 years
old to the pharmacy, or you can be under
18 and go to planned parenthood to by Plan
B. If taken within 3 days of having sex,
it can help to prevent pregnancy and
greatly decrease your chances of becoming
pregnant.
Good luck; take a test in 2 weeks and keep
us updated.
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Ingi
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Posted: 06-09-08 09:48am
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| daslautlacht
wrote: | | Ingi
wrote: | Condoms are free at family
planning centers (Planned Parenthood).
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At my planned parenthood center they are 3
for a quarter |
Less than bubblegum.
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
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Posted: 06-11-08 13:56pm
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25 cents is better then thousands thaT it
would cost to have a baby hun
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morgan456
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Posted: 06-19-08 11:57am
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Your like my girlfriend. I got her
pregnant, because the condom split, at 15
but we were in love (And still are) with
our son, who we manage to care for
superbly. (we are 16 now)
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me_xx
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Posted: 06-24-08 18:10pm
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thats naive, you might be happy and your
child might be - but how much happier
would you be if youd waited ten years and
had more money, life experience etc?
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Posted: 06-26-08 14:35pm
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| morgan456
wrote: | | Your like my girlfriend. I
got her pregnant, because the condom
split, at 15 but we were in love (And
still are) with our son, who we manage to
care for superbly. (we are 16
now) |
How do you support yourselves? How do you
go to work, go to school, and care for a
child?
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