My boyfriend likes to finger me in the
anus and in the vagina at the same time...
I enjoy it but I think I would like it
tons more when someone tells me this is
normal and there is nothing wrong with
it...
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flipper
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Posted: 06-05-08 06:47am
Sounds normal to me. Some love it, some
don't- same as everything really. I think
anything that feels good to you is okay.
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worrywart01
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Posted: 06-05-08 16:16pm
agreed with flipper
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antigone
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Posted: 06-05-08 21:09pm
Ditto.
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beachgenie
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anal fingering Posted: 06-05-08 21:36pm
same here. somehow the contractions add a
whole new dimension to the pleasure.
Those are the best orgasms to me,
fingering if finessed properly, starting
around the SI area where all the nerves
start, sliding gradually down the crack,
making use of the available fluids, then
slipping in from the vaginal side, which
already stimulated is the more natural
entrance route. Adding to your aroused
state, why not see if clitoral stim. is
simultaneously possible. For ex. does his
pubic bone happen to align with your
clitorus? (Coital alignment Technique -
CAT)
Anyway, is this wrong? Absolutely, in our
guilt-basaed society maybe! WHO CARES!
Seek total pleasure; you're only here
for awhile.
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ilovesunsets
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Joined: 12 Jun 2008 Posts: 1
Posted: 06-12-08 10:48am
I love to finger and even lick my
partner's pink anus but she would never
let me. Been trying for years now. I
love to lick her vagina occasionally try
to go further south during her second
orgasm, hoping she would loose control and
let me do it but no such luck. I began to
wonder if someone likes it...glad to know
someone out there does - makes me feel
less weird. Come to think of it, it has
just made me hornier. I've even had wet
dreams of doing it to her...but dreaming
seems as far as I'll get.
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2eatoria
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Joined: 05 Jun 2008 Posts: 32
Posted: 06-15-08 21:09pm
If it makes you happy, it can't be that
bad. Make sure he trims his fingernails
so he doesn't cut you, and lube is
helpful. We've actually found that raw
fingers are more likely to cause
irritation than fingers covered in latex
or vinyl gloves. Seems to be something
with the natural salts and oils on skin.
And when I say "we" I mean both of us like
having fingers up our respective butts.
No, I don't think you're any kind of freak
at all. She likes it with one up her
bung, one in her vagina, and a thumb
pushing her labia against her clitoris,
and gently rolling it kind of from the
side like. (Direct clitoral stimulation
is often too much for her.)
Season to suit your own taste. You know
what feels good, because you're in there.
Just tell him, and he's sure to
accommodate. Especially if you
reciprocate.
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lil_mommy_2007
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Joined: 17 Jun 2008 Posts: 5
Posted: 06-18-08 10:11am
I love the whole anal fingering and sex.
Theres even times when he will go farther
south when he suppose yo be licking my
vigina.
