are you going to keep you baby? Posted: 07-30-03 04:44am
i am going to keep my kid no matter what.
i already love him/her.
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harmony1
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Posted: 06-17-08 06:55am
I don't agree. if i was a teen and
pregnant it would depend on the
circumstances. Can i provide a good life
for the baby. Am i in a good strong
relationship? Do I really want this right
now? What about the future. I had my first
child at the age of 27. Couldn't be
happier that i waited ( and yes i had the
opportunity to have chn b4) If i had have
chosen to have them then my child would
have a very abusive father. no thanks.
plus the timing wasn't right. You know if
you want a child or not when you're
pregnant. go with your gut. Don't just
have it cos you feel you have to. Do it
because that is what you want to do !!! If
you don't want it and you feel you're too
young THEN DON'T have it...
It's completely your choice.
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Amethyst_Butterfly
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Posted: 06-17-08 13:36pm
Theres always adopion
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aochriss
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Posted: 06-18-08 23:07pm
Adoption is a parenting decision.
Abortion is a pregnancy decision.
In other words, deciding whether or not
to go through with the pregnancy has
nothing to do with adoption. After that
decision is made, then the adoption
question can be addressed, provided the
woman in question decided to go ahead with
the pregnancy.
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moldedbymercy88
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Posted: 06-19-08 00:14am
aochriss
wrote:
Adoption is a parenting
decision. Abortion is a pregnancy
decision.
In other words, deciding whether or not
to go through with the pregnancy has
nothing to do with adoption. After that
decision is made, then the adoption
question can be addressed, provided the
woman in question decided to go ahead with
the
pregnancy.
Of course adoption is a pregnancy
decision. If my biological mother had
aborted me instead of choosing to give me
up for adoption I wouldn't have the
AMAZING mother I have now. She chose to go
through with the PREGNANCY. I'm so
grateful she did. I am 100% pro-life. I
could have been killed just for existing.
Yes, everyone gets to make their own
decisions. But, coming from someone that
is a product of this subject, I don't see
why people don't give the child to someone
that would love them instead of killing
them.
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Amethyst_Butterfly
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Posted: 06-20-08 11:16am
Exactly its not the baby's fault it's
alive.
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Jules
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Posted: 06-20-08 12:49pm
By the way folks, the original post is 5
years old.
This should be moved to abortion debate
too I think
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Moo
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Posted: 06-23-08 09:55am
moldedbymercy88
wrote:
I don't see why people don't
give the child to someone that would love
them instead of killing
them.
Because not all women want to be pregnant
(I'm assuming you are referring to
'social' abortions by the way) - abortion
is the only option where the woman can
choose to no longer be pregnant, if you
choose adoption then you still have to
carry the pregnancy/give birth and not
everyone wants to do that!
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Posted: 06-23-08 10:45am
Moo
wrote:
moldedbymercy88
wrote:
I don't see why people don't
give the child to someone that would love
them instead of killing
them.
Because not all women want to be pregnant
(I'm assuming you are referring to
'social' abortions by the way) - abortion
is the only option where the woman can
choose to no longer be pregnant, if you
choose adoption then you still have to
carry the pregnancy/give birth and not
everyone wants to do
that!
Not only that there is millions of
children wanting to be adopted, if only
few kids are adopted, then you bring
another kid into this world who will take
away from the other special child. You
have kids who are pissing on the ground,
kids that are starving, kids that are
neglected(possibly due to parents death)
and well kids who need a home and it seems
like there is more kids than people can
take care of. In my eyes this is wrong
and someone should be contributing.
