At risk for pregnancy after fooling around ? Posted: 04-11-08 00:45am
I've posted this a few times..but I still
need some more feedback!
I talked about the incident where I had
messed around with my boyfriend and he had
fingered me while I was giving him
oral/hand job...and he fingered me before
I did anything to him but he still had his
pants on and his penis wasn't touching me.
But i'm just afraid somewhere in the act
he could've got precum on his fingers and
just not known it then fingered me. And
i'm afraid to ask him cuz I think he would
get mad at me if I even brought it up. I'm
paranoid about this EVERYTIME we do
stuff..so it gets pretty old
and anyways I had my period for this month
but it was light and sporatic. It started
on April 4th...lasted till about the 10th
and now every now and then when I wipe I
get some brown discharge. which is
sometimes normal for me. My breasts
started hurting before my period like they
usually do, and I got cramps the first day
and everything..but my flow was just
different! and that's unusal for me! Could
it be stress that was doing this to me??
Because we messed around 3 days after my
period..so it's pretty much been on my
mind all month. and I also went through a
really tough week when I just lost my
appetite and was barely eating anything
because I was stressed/upset about a lot
of stuff. So could that have an effect
too..or do you think that I'm still at
some sort of risk??
Just any answers will help! sorry if posts
like these get old..
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Amethyst_Butterfly
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Posted: 04-11-08 01:22am
Your not pregnant, you had your period,
and messing around, the chances are too
good that it would happen.
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gobbledygook
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Re: I'm still a little questionable..I need some opinions please Posted: 04-11-08 08:19am
pinky281
wrote:
I'I'm paranoid about this
EVERYTIME we do stuff..so it gets pretty
old
I don't blame you. It is scary. This is
just my opinion, but, you should tell him
you don't want to do it anymore.
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Reptar
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Posted: 04-11-08 09:17am
Okay. Here's an idea, you NEED TO GET ON
BIRTHCONTROL or keep both of your pants
on. Pregnancy hypochondriacs need to do
one of these two things. You're not
pregnant. You never were. You will not get
pregnant through the methods you've
stated. Precum is wet. Your boyfriend
would of felt it. Stop fooling around or
get protected. Of course it's going to get
old until you do something to prevent it.
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sarahhendrickson
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Joined: 01 Mar 2006 Posts: 30 Location: MO
Posted: 04-11-08 09:40am
If your going to have sex/or be involved
in sexual activities like adults, Please
act like your old enough to do so, take
the steps to protect yourself. If not
you're going to keep find yourself in this
postion. Be SMART!
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krystineM
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Posted: 04-11-08 10:51am
your not pregnant.
you really need to get a little more
educated on sex because if this happens
pretty much everytime you have sex, you'll
be a nervous wreck for life! Plus, you
should know by now how a baby is
concieved. Yes some get pregnant by
precum, but thats like a slim chance,
there are people who say it, but my sister
inlaw [who has 2 kids that were planned]
got off birth control because of problems
it was giving her, they did not use a
condom and just pulled out, she never got
pregnant while doing this, and when they
were ready to have a baby it took them a
year to concieve. And the rest of the
time, before children came into their
lives, they just pulled out.
You are stressing yourself out, which is
giving you all these weird symptoms, your
period was WERID because of you stressing
out. Thats not a pregnancy sign, its a
sign of stress on your body. Sometimes
when people stress themselves out about
thinking their pregnant, they give
themselves the symptoms, when they really
are not even pregnant.
Stop stressing, because its making you
crazy, you are not pregnant.
A period means that the nutriens that feed
an embryo have been washed away.
Therefore, no pregnancy has occured
because you got your period.
The discharge is just from your period
bleeding, not a pregnancy sign.
You really need to be safer in any act of
sex, or not engage in any sexual acts
until smart enough to know the risks and
get protected.
