Congrats on the pregnancy
It's perfectly normal to worry and stress a little bit about the baby and how you are doing, especially if it's your first. I was still doing it on my sixth baby. So for me to give you more info on what things should be like, maybe you should first tell me how far a long in the pregnancy you are?
Every pregnancy is different from woman to woman and each woman has differences from one pregnancy to the next too. There is no set in stone list for things that will happen. You can get the book "What to expect when you're expecting" which gives you guidelines for your pregnancy. Or you can come here too, no problem with that.
Some women don't show until even 6months pregnant and some will feel the baby move really early, like 12 weeks, and some won't feel it until 20. Just give me a little more info about yourself so we can help you out a little more