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Q: Breakup and a bit confused!?
asked by: angel999 on October 6th, 2008
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My ex and I broke up back in April. I went two months without talking to him. He was attempted phone calls and text messages but I was scared to answer. What if he had a new girl in his life. I did NOT want to know. Anyways, I did eventually pick up a call and met up with him. We started seeing one another again. Well, a few weeks ago I walked out on him because I deserve better. I didn't want to because I love him so much and have so may years with him but he's really not healthy for me. What I'm upset about is he has only tried to contact me once, once. That bothers me. Sad thing is, if he were trying to contact me at least I would know he cared. I sent him a text wishing him a happy birthday a few days ago and he sent me a text back asking me to call him when I got the chance. I never called. I just feel that if he really wanted to or really missed me he would call just like he did during our first split. What do you guys think about the situation? When in love my thoughts are everywhere.
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gemskimarie replied on October 6th, 2008
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Honestly not to sound harsh.. but it sounds like you want him to want you. You left him so why should he call you and text you. He asked you to call him, and you didn't but you think he sould call you, that doesn't make sense. If you cared as much as you say you do, you would of called insead of leaving him hanging. He probley thinks you don't want anything to do with him. It takes two people to make things work. He shouldn't be the one making the effort everytime you guys break up. If you really want to be with him, let him know, show him you care before its to late. Good luck!
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