Okay, here's the problem. Exactly one week
ago, on the morning of Monday the 22nd of
September, my fiance and I had
intercourse. It was no rougher than usual,
although there was possibly a little more
friction than normal because we were
sneaking in a quickie before leaving for
work.
Afterwards I noticed I was bleeding a
little. I didn't take too much notice as
this has happened before in the past. I
think my fiance might be just a little too
big, or otherwise I'm a little too small.
Either way, the post-sex bleeding always
stops within hours.
This time it didn't stop. Three and a half
days later I was getting concerned so I
went to outpatients at the nearest
hospital (I don't currently have a family
doctor because of a move for work I made
two years ago and the fact that there
aren't enough doctors in this province,
meaning I actually can't get one, not that
I'm just lazy or something...). They took
a urine sample and ran for infections and
what-not, which came clean, and the doctor
did a pelvic exam. During the exam he
asked whether I could possibly be
pregnant, and I said I assumed not because
I'm very careful with my pills, which I've
been on for almost 9 years and have never
had a problem before. The doctor was
almost adamant that I was pregnant because
my cervix was "bruised", which he
described as having a bluish-purplish hue.
A few minutes later a test on my urine
told that I wasn't pregnant. The doctor
was still unconvinced and told me I should
watch carefully for my next period and
maybe even take another test in a few
weeks.
It has now been a week since the bleeding
began, and four days since I saw the
doctor at outpatients. I'm still bleeding.
It's not a huge amount, but enough that I
have to wear liners so as not to ruin my
underwear. I'm starting to get concerned
again, but I'm hesitant to return to
outpatients because I'm not very fond of
that doctor after last time.
My official period should start Wednesday,
which will prove the pregnancy idea
(hopefully false), but I'm worried that
even after my period I'll still be
bleeding.
I'm avoiding sex now, hoping that whatever
the problem is will heal itself and leave
me be, but it doesn't look like it's going
to happen, and I don't imagine it'll be
too long before my fiance starts getting
upset with the arrangements.
Any advice or ideas or comments would be
great. Thanks for reading!