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ShOrTyRoC

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Can I Still Get Pregnant After a Miscarriage???
Posted: 07-12-04 01:10am

I had a miscarriage 2 years ago and I didnt go to the hospital cause I was too afraid to I was in pain for one day and I had my period for three weeks after the miscarriage I was alright. But its strange that my boyfriend ejaculates in me sometimes and I would think I d be pregnant but my period comes and I get upset Crying
or Very sad Crying
or Very sad could it be that I cant get pregnant cause of the miscarriage cause I didnt go to the hospital Question Question I need help I really need to know this feeling that I have that I cant have babys has gotten to the point that I cant think straight I get real upset can some one please reply Crying
or Very sad Crying
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AMAZINGSTAR

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Posted: 07-12-04 01:34am

Its extremely unlikely that you can not have babies but no one really knows until they start trying and have been for over a year.Most docs will not even send you for fertility tests until you havebeen trying for over a year.
I to had a misscarriage a month ago so I know how you feel on the that note.Are you trying at the moment? Maybe you should go see your doc and expalin your worries.But I would not fret over it.There are so mnay things and options to help women conceive now.
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hotasfrick

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Posted: 07-12-04 02:14am

Well, if you had a miscarriage, did not go to the doctor and did not get sick or die from an infection then you should be fine.
You are suppose to go to the doc after a miscarriage to get a d&c to clean you out and prevent infection. But, like I said if you had a bad infection you would definately have known it.
So, most likely you are fine. Just relax and enjoy trying to make a baby. Stress will make it harder to become pregnant. Good luck.
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ShOrTyRoC

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Posted: 07-12-04 16:50pm

Thank u u guys had really made me feel better and to see things in a different way but I still dont uderstand y is it that I dont get
pregnant Question Crying
or Very sad could it be me or could it be tha positions I do it in cause I heard that if you do it in a certain position u can get pregnant faster but those stories I really dunt believe Confused
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sparklypixie12

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Posted: 07-12-04 17:14pm

Don't believe those myths-changing positions won't make it easier for you to become pregnant.The main thing is that you relax-stress doesn't do your body any good & if you stop thinking about it for a while maybe it will happen when you least expect it.Good luck
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o-ana

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Posted: 07-15-04 17:53pm

I just had a miscarriage, couple of days ago. It was the worst nightmare I ever experience in my whole life. Only a few days before my doctor had told me that I am pregnant. I was 7 weeks far. My boyfriend and me were very happy about it when we found out, but then only a few days after, I started having cramps combined with bleeding. I went to my gyno for a check up and the ultrasound showed everything was allright with the baby as for now, but if the bleeding got any heavier I should go immediately to the hospital. That night bleeding started getting massive, it wouldnt stop as well as the pain. I hoped it would go away, but also was prepared that it could be something serious. I prayed that my baby would survive. In the morning I checked in to the hospital where they diagnosed a miscarriage. No heartbeat - nothing. I was under shock and burst out in tears.
They told me they would have to make a d&c as for to remove the rest of the bodyparts.
At first I refused, because, I couldnt realize my baby was dead.
After a long talk with the doctor, I agreed as it was the best for my health.
I still do not know how deal with it all, and ask myself why? And what my fault was.
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sandyallen

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O-ana
Posted: 07-15-04 18:19pm

Don't blame yourself! It is not your fault! Sometimes things happen that we have noooooooooooooooooo control over!
I read in your other post that you have a four y/o daughter, she still needs you, when the time is right, you will probably have another baby but try not to rush it, give yourself and your body time to recover.
Sincerely,
sandy
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o-ana

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Posted: 07-17-04 14:27pm

Thank you so much for your words!!!!!!!!!

You are so right and it helped me a lot to go on with everything. Its right when they say time heals wounds, although I think I will never go over it totally, but at least, I try to carry on.
I have a child that who really needs me to be there for her.
I just hope that I dont have to go through this a second time in my life.

Thanks again!
Oana
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