I've been with a wonderful girl for about
a year now, and we're completely open and
willing in the bedroom. Frustrations on
both sides are starting to arise though.
I'm uncircumsized, and while phimosis
isn't an issue, the foreskin retracts
fine, the glans underneath is incredibly
sensitive.
With past relationships, I always had a
really hard time ejaculating during
anything except intercourse. The skin
gets pulled back during intercourse, and
it increases the feeling immensely, yet
if something touches it during fellatio or
a handjob, it doesn't exactly hurt, but it
is very uncomfortable.
When we first got together, I had little
issues with reaching an orgasm from
anything we did. Now it seems that I'll
get right to the edge, and then I get a
numb feeling and I get farther away.
Like I said, we're open, so she knows all
of this, and she's expressed a desire for
me to be able to ejaculate. I reach
orgasm occasionally, everything except the
ejaculate, and we're both getting a little
frustrated over this.