can't get orgasm after giving birth Posted: 07-05-08 00:29am
Please help! I just had another baby and I
cant get orgasms anymore. I use to be able
to orgasm usualy 9 out of 10 times,
especially if I was on top. Now, even when
I am on top I get extra wet & loose to the
point where i cant feel how hard my man
is. I get frustrated and end up giving up.
Literally, I'm dripping wet. I've tried
even taking showers right before(thinking
that this would help) and nope! I do feel
stretched out since giving birth, but its
so frustrating! I miss our old sex life.
What can I do? We've tried different
positions and nothing is working...
Thanks.
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harmony1
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Posted: 07-05-08 00:46am
I can relate to some of what you're going
through. I just remember the midwives and
my teachers saying pelvic floor exercises.
Doesn't sound appealing but that way
you'll feel your man again. Not sure about
the extra moisture. i get it too. i feel
like a fountain. Hopefully someone else
may have the answer.
I was just going to say...are you doing
Kegel exercises? That will help a little
more. When you practice them regularly,
you will feel him better and his movements
more.
How long is a sexual act with your
husband? Is he giving oral beforehand? If
so, stop that! If you're taking a long
time...maybe quicken it up a little
because the more your stimulated, the more
lubrication you will produce.
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Rosie H
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Posted: 07-08-08 16:36pm
I suggest kegal excersises too. You can
even practice them while you are going up
and down on his penis. I know its sounds
more like a chore, but it can feel really
good for you and him. Plus you can feel
how tight you are buy gripping him.
So you can flex when just his head is
inside and do it again when hes all the
way in. Then find a time for yourself
where you can do them. Like while watching
tv, doing the dishes, or at a red light.
