hi i am here to ask a few questions to see
if anyone can possibly help me
ok i recently split with my sons father,
he told me to take our son and get out,
now i lived in iowa with him, and im
originally from pa, so i stayed in a
homeless (domestic abuse) shelter for 4
days prior to arriving back in pa to my
mothers house. yes there has been abuse
in the relationship. now that i am back
in pa, his father wants custody of him, so
he filed a petition for custody, and since
iowa has home state advantage, i have to
go back to iowa for the case. now my
questions are... his father has his birth
certificate, i know i can apply online for
one, but right at the moment all my spare
money is consumed in lawyer fees and
cannot afford to get him a birth
certificate.. how can i go about getting
him insurance thru the state of
pennsylvania without it. my second
question is, the only thing he has against
me is leaving the state with our child,
even tho he told me to take him and leave.
after he was charged with domestic abuse,
i gained full custody of my son, dont i
have the right to take my son with me? i
know that he cannot prove that i am unfit
as since my son was born, i was the sole
provider and caretaker of my son, he did
nothing with him, he wouldnt change a
diaper, hold him, feed him, give him a
bath... i did everything. my sons father
was so consumed in the internet to even
spend 5 minutes with my son. is there
anyway i can use that against him? if
anyone has any answers, please let me know
as the custody case is on march 11th.... i
am also looking for some help on writing a
5-10 page affadavit if anyone could give
me some ideas on how to go about that,
thank you
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mominashoe
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Posted: 05-09-08 16:08pm
Oh goodness, it looks like I've found this
post a little late. What is the result of
the case or are you still in the middle of
it? I know these things can go on for a
while. It seems to me that if he has no
rights to your child and he had given you
sole custody by telling you to take your
son and leave, then he has no rights to
ANY of his legal papers, including all his
records and birth certificate included,
which should be with you.
I could try helping you out with the
affidavit, but I've never done one before
either...I'm only good at my language
skills, for what it's worth, you are
welcome to it.
Let me know how it's going!
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mominashoe
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Posted: 05-09-08 16:09pm
Oh and BTW, in order to get those
documents, you will have to ask for a
court to order him to turn over those
papers, don't go to his house or try to
talk to him. You wouldn't want to put
yourself in a bad situation.
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