Co-Dependency or lack of self esteem ? Posted: 06-27-08 17:15pm
Hi there,
I think i'm either co-dependent or suffer
from low self esteem but i can't work out
which.
Last year - i was almost obsessed about
this one girl - she was practically my
life - if we got on i was happy.. if we
fell out i was sad. She usually said i
was very insecure... obsessive.... i just
wanted to be in a relationship with her
whatever the cost!
I was kind of abit controlling too - if i
know she needed me for something, i would
get whatever i could out of her in return.
I was depressed and suffered very bad
anxiety. At the same time all of my
other relationships suffered - i don't
know. People didn't seem to be very
interested in me at all - conversations
would be all ME putting in the effort - i
had a craving to be popular and liked by
everyone.
I look forward to your reply Esteem or
Co-Dependence?