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Q: Conception date confusion
asked by: winter88 on March 9th, 2009
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hello-

My last period started january 8th 2009 it only lasts about 2 or 3 days. I just found out i am pregnant 8 weeks and 1 day (t0day as of 03/09/2009)
my Boyfriend and I have unprotected sex every weekend friday - sunday.. we had sex that saturday and sunday which was january 10th and 11th, so i was just ending my period i wasn't bleeding as much on saturday or even sunday it was very very lite like spotting and then it was gone sunday the 11th of january..

now i had sex with my ex on january 15th (thursday) around like midnite after the bar- now i remember him he use a condom, and then he took it off becuase he had a hard time to ejaculate. he got up after a little while when we were having intercourse getting mad because he couldn't ejaculate and he said he wasn't going to, so we stopped having sex.
my EX did not ejaculate inside and did not ejaculate at all. I am some what positive it is my boyfriends, becuase even that weekend friday 16th, saturday the 17th and sunday the 18th we had sex and he ejaculated in me every time. but i am just a little nervous you know. I messed up and i know i did. but that is what alot of greygoose does to ya i guess.
well my due date is October 18th so i believe i would of conceived on january 11th which was right at the end of my period . so it most likely is my boyfriends. Right?

I think so it is my boyfriends because my ex he didn't even ejaculate in me though- and with the time frame from the ultrasound (i had today 3/9/2009) it was determind i am 8 weeks and 1 day which 8 weeks ago and one day was january 11th. if it was my ex i would be like 7 weeks and 3 days though , right? this is so confusing i am so dissapointed at myself. but i remeber and i confirmed with him yesterday he did not ejaculate inside of me or at all that nite so wouldnt that even be impossible.??

please help me with your opinions anyone thank you!
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leeslight
replied on March 9th, 2009
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Well then, if your ex boyfriend didn't ejaculate at all, then its impossible to be your ex boyfriends baby.....

This is all just trying to justify your guilt!!!!.. and Yes you are guilty, but the baby is not your ex's if what you are telling us is true...

Good luck with the baby and congratulations...
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Mabel
replied on March 9th, 2009
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leeslight wrote:
Well then, if your ex boyfriend didn't ejaculate at all, then its impossible to be your ex boyfriends baby.....

This is all just trying to justify your guilt!!!!.. and Yes you are guilty, but the baby is not your ex's if what you are telling us is true...

Good luck with the baby and congratulations...


Pre-ejaculate? If ever there is penetration, you cannot say it is 'impossible'. In fact, during any month where there is more than one sexual partner and conception has occurred, it is prudent to get a DNA test to prove who the father is.
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worriedauzzi
replied on March 9th, 2009
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Take the date of your last period... 08/01/09 add 14 days. Did you have sex on or around 22/01/09. Most prob that is date of conception
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leeslight
replied on March 9th, 2009
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Pre - ejaculation wasn't mentioned... So I was only going along with what was said and said in a PM..

But you are quite right...
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winter88
replied on March 10th, 2009
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ya
Yes i have had sex with my Boyfriend on and around 1/22/09.. so since i am 8 weeks pregant (six weeks frm conception) which mean like 6 weeks ago , rihgt? so if so i would of conceived around that weekend of the 22end when i was most fertile and i did have intercourse with my boyrfriend that weekend the 23rd thru the 25th of january because him and i have unprotected sex all the time.

- and Pre-ejaculation well I asked my ex yesterday and he said no he didnt ejaculate at all that nite- but is tere even anyway to know if u pre ejaculate-
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ilpleut
replied on March 16th, 2009
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No, there's no way to know if your ex-boyfriend secreted any pre-ejaculate.

#1., You most likely conceived in the week of January 22nd.

#2., If you have multiple partners, and ESPECIALLY if you are having unprotected sex with at least one of them, it is incredibly important that you get tested for STDs as soon as possible. Not only is it important for your health and your baby's health, but definitely for your boyfriend's health.

#3., Good luck with your baby. Stay safe and healthy!
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