I'm a little confused about my conception
date. For the first time I made a mistake
and slept with two different men in one
month. One was my ex husband and the other
was a new guy that I thought was right for
me, but ended up not being so. I had
unprotected sex with my ex husband on the
11th. Which I know for darn sure he "came"
inside of me. I met the other guy on the
15th. We did NOT have sex on that day, But
we had protected sex on the 16th.
Unfortunatley I was confused and had sex
with my ex husband, which was unprotected,
the night of the 16th. Again, I had sex
with the other guy on the 18th, which was
also protected. My ultrasound on April
24th was 7 weeks and 2 days. My due date
is December 8th. When I got a positive
pregnancy test on the 4th of April, I was
4 weeks and 5 days. My LMP was 03/03/08.
When I count back 7 weeks and 2 days from
the 24th of April, It lands on the 11th.
The only time the other guy and I had
unprotected sex was on the 29th of March
and my expected period was supposed to
come on the 30th of March. I'm very
nervous, because my ex husband and I are
trying to work things out and he's
extremely happy about the baby. I've never
been in this situation before, and I'm
kicking myself everyday because it seems
that I can't figure this one out. I've
been told that there is a possibility that
women can get pregnant while using a
condom if it's not used properly, but I
know for sure this condom was used
properly. I know for sure that if this
isn't my ex husbands baby, we will never
be able to work things out. That's just
the way he is, and I completely
understand. Could someone please help me?
I'd greatly appreciate it. Thank you. =]
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Greenb1023
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2008 Posts: 54 Location: CA,
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Posted: 07-09-08 15:33pm
If you had unprotected sex with your ex
hubby and protected sex with your bf then
it is probably your ex hubbys, but there
is a slight chance it could be your bf's.
The only way to really know is to get a
paternity test.
According to your data you probably
ovulated and conceived on 16-th March. On
that date you had sex with 2 men but one
was protected and the other one was
unprotected. Chances to conceive from the
protected sex are 3% and from unprotected
sex are 97%.
By the way ultrasound apparatus doesn't
count the days but estimate the pregnancy
age according to some fetal measurements.
But even if you count back 7 weeks and 2
days from the 24th of April, It lands on
5-th March (not 11th March) which is very
close to your LMP-date (3-rd March). This
makes 18-th March also a risky date but
the sex on that date was also protected.
I believe that your ex husband is the
father of your unborn baby but if you want
to be 100% sure you need to do a paternity
test.
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LovingEveryMoment
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jul 2008 Posts: 37
Posted: 07-19-08 12:24pm
I looked it up. your conception date was
March 17th according to your LMP
