im 19 ive never been with a guy before but
i have been with a girl (im bi)...
well me and my ex gf use to have "sex". we
used toys (bigger than fingers so real
penis size stuff)
well im just so confused cause i mean my
vagina is as open and loose as it can
gets... but im confused if im still a
virgin since ive never actually done it
with a guy
i never know what to say when someone asks
me if im a virgin
i just say no to guys because if i end up
having sex with him he is def gonna know
its not tight...
well i think
so questions that i have
am i still a virgin?
do guys feel the difference between loose
and tight?
i ask because well im more attracted to
men than woman and sometimes i just dont
want to straight up explained he whole me
being with a girl and masturbating
together and stuff so im just confused...
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mommyglamour
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Apr 2008 Posts: 25
Posted: 05-05-08 01:30am
are you sure you got yourself loosened up
that way? because i've had 2 kids...the
vaginal way and i still have next to
virgin like tightness.
if they ask if you're a virgin just tell
em "well i've never been with a man/guy"
and if they ask for more info tell em
"they gotta work for it" lol
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Maddie34
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Posted: 05-05-08 09:25am
I think if you're going to have sex with
someone then you should be able to tell
them the truth and say you've only been
with women. I really doubt a guy is going
to notice or care either way.
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carmella0306
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Joined: 19 Jun 2008 Posts: 3 Location: ,
Posted: 06-19-08 22:23pm
you are definitely still a virgin if you
have only been penetrated by sex toys.
as for your question about whether or not
guys feel the difference between loose or
tight, they certainly do. the first &
only guy i've slept with was a few years
older than me & had obviously been
with girls who were experienced, ie not as
tight as a virgin. he was practically
overwhelmed with how tight i was &
commented on it several times during our
love making. so tighter is better.
if "tightness" concerns you, you can
always exercise your vaginal muscles (i
cant really explain this, you just kinda
do it) which tones & strengthens the
walls of your vagina & therefore gives
it a tighter fit.
and when a patential sexual partner asks
you about your virginity, be honest about
it. you don't have to go into detail, but
you ARE still a virgin, so that's all they
really need to know.
