Denying me because of the distance? Posted: 03-11-08 12:38pm
Ok, this is going to drag on for a bit.
I'm 17 and finished school last June or
July, I can't remember. For a good two
years while I was at school I really
fancied this girl in my English class. I'm
a really quiet, shy person when it comes
to talking to people I don't know and so
couldn't pick up the courage to even talk
to her. In the last couple of months of
school I got moved to the table infront of
her for always messing around with my mate
and eventually we started talking a bit.
The last day of school eventually came and
I was pretty frustrated for not even
implying I was interested in her by now.
The day ended and everybody was getting
pictures and having their shirts signed
and having a laugh, and I saw this girl
and went over to her. She immediately
wrapped her arms around me and wouldn't
let go. She told me that shes really going
to miss me and wishes she could get to
know me. She didn't live too far away at
this time. I gave her my number and she
took mine and I went home to get ready for
a party. I sent her a text while I was at
the party asking if I could meet her the
day after and she said yeah. While I was
spending that day with her, I realised she
wasn't just a pretty face but that she had
an amazing personality. She made me laugh
and I felt I could tell her anything. We
ended up meeting each other every day for
like a month and every day I just wanted
to ask her out, but daren't. One night we
went out for a bit and came back to mine
and had a bit to drink. We ended up in bed
but we didnt do anything but kiss. I was
petrified all night because of how much I
like her. Anyway, not long after, she told
me she was moving to Selby. That really
upset me as I knew that my chance had
pretty much gone. I live in Leeds -
Wakefield area so Selby isn't all that far
away but I just knew there wasn't much
chance for me now. She moved and for about
the last 10 month, I've barely seen her.
We keep in touch with each other, but we
aren't as close as we used to be. When she
first moved I did tell her how much I like
her and she didnt seem too happy. She told
me I was her best friend, but I didn't
understand why we had gone from been so
close to been so distant over the space of
a couple of weeks. Do you think its
because of us living in different places
or could it be something else? What should
I do or say as I still really like her and
would do anything for her? (BTW for those
who don't know, Leeds to Selby is about a
40 minute drive, so its not exactly far.)
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paul995
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Apr 2007 Posts: 140 Location: ,
Posted: 03-13-08 19:14pm
well . . . well . . . well . . . someone's
really into someone. I'm just confused
though, why would she let you be close in
the first place if she doesn't like you or
just treats you as a bestfriend. Much of
it, I believe, would be the distance . . .
for 10 months, there would have been a lot
of things that have happened.
Anyhoots, I would tell her that I still
like her even though we're miles apart.
Ask her if she has a boyfriend or is going
out with someone. Try to clear things up
because if I were the guy, I would be
confused as well... If she is going out,
then time to move on . . .
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Anonynonymous
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2007 Posts: 7
Posted: 03-15-08 09:32am
Thanks for your help bud. We've both
broken up for the easter holidays now and
shes supposed to be coming down to see me.
Just got to try and pick up the courage to
say how I feel when I meet her. I'm pretty
sure she isn't going out with anybody at
the mo so I'm alright there (I hope).
Anyway going to the pub now to watch
England thrash Ireland in the Six
Nations.
If anyone else could post anything that
would help me, it would be greatly
appreciated.
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