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si12j12

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depressed, was it for the best? ......
Posted: 03-05-08 23:30pm

I met this girl at a club , she caught my eye and i had to talk to her .
I had couple of drinks so "drunk courage kicked" in and made a move
but i dont normally . I am very passive and shy most of the times,
we danced talked and i got her number. It was a good night.

I called her about 4 days later and we talked a bit , but i found that was very difficult to talk to her she would only respond with simple comments
, we stoped talking for about a month , then one day i get a text and we started to talk again, it seemed like we were geting along and conversation was much better.

Somehow it came up that she is a very "shallow" person and only goes for good looking guys , witch kind of bothered me but didnt say much about that .We would talk on the phone from like 1 am to 4am at times , we would text all the time, So we finally went out to watch a movie and we drove around talked and had prety good time.

Yesterday ,for some reason she asked how much i made at work , i responded "does it really mater" and kind of kidded around , well i told her an estimated amount and told her yea its ok for now , she said well if you dont like it ,do something you like .....i said i dont know what i want to do?..
she said "eh your annoying me" under her breath , it bothered me beacuse this girl is spoiled rich dadys girl that gets everything ...i pretended like i didnt hear that and told her , hey let me call you back.

I called her about 30 min later , and i told her "did i wake you" (it was midnight witch is when we usually talk) ...she said well i was falling a sleep
whats up? , she seemed bothered so we only talked for couple minutes and told her well il let you go to sleep, she said "oook" in a annoyed/sarcastic voice. After that she text me saying "wake me up and ditch me..Thanks..night" . I text back with "sorry...dont want to annoy you ...good night."

Things were going good and this happens , i text her today , but no reply...
im thinking this is prety much over , i was falling for her and was really liking her ...


Things i sould point out:
-she is white / phillipino
-wealthy familly
-is a dancer/ teacher (jaz, ballet, tap , does musicals)
-goes to college but only takes dance classes
-very sarcastic
-all into her self and looks
-very "stuck up"
-feels shes better than other people
-very materialistic
-very hard to talk to
-she is 20
-i am 23

Reasons i though it probably wouldnt have worked out is that we are of totally different backgrounds and ethnicity , circle of friends , cant have semi intelligent conversation , and she is selfish (thinks the world revolves around her because she is very good looking.

so ....is it for the best that we stop talking ?

Thank you in advance for the advise or comments.
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Reptar

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Posted: 03-06-08 17:25pm

So why did you like her in the first place? If it was only for her looks, believe me, you can do better. There are good looking girls that don't act like a queen bee. I don't see why you'd even want a relationship with her.
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likeAstone

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Posted: 03-07-08 12:59pm

Sounds like your the one being shallow to me mate, no offense.
Who would wanna be with sum1 like that?.. Go find yourself a nice girl who's interested in you as a person... not how much money you make.
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seefigure68

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Posted: 03-07-08 21:10pm

seriously, and another thing, even if yall did startd dating and together for a while, she seems like the type who would leave as soon as something better came along....so save urself a real heartbreak and look for chicks at the park maybe instead of the pub.
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Number8

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Posted: 03-08-08 22:14pm

You are wasting your time. You will never, EVER find a good quality woman/girl at a bar/club.

One thing my dad always told me that is true...stay away from dancers and actresses.

I have followed this rule and I must say. It has done me quite good.

The same goes for girls who are in the PR (public relations) business.
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