jason was actually better behaved before i
had kids, i mean now hes calmed down alot,
but thats cuz he sits on the computer
playin wordl of warcraft all day and night
but when i was pregnant with jordynne he
would go out with his friends ALL night
and it made me sooooooo mad.
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ladylee70
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Joined: 14 Nov 2006 Posts: 1912 Location: Boise, Idaho,
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Posted: 03-08-08 20:06pm
My husband has never partied a day in his
life. We are older, though. I wish he had
some friends over sometimes. He needs
friends.How old is he?
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OctoberBaby06
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Posted: 03-08-08 20:17pm
Shane has definately calmed down a lot
since I got pregnant & had Kaylee. It
used to be an everynight thing but now he
goes to the bar twice a month.
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amber♥
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Feb 2008 Posts: 38 Location: I hate, Oklahoma
Posted: 03-08-08 22:09pm
We're both 17. But we've been together for
4 years
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ladylee70
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Joined: 14 Nov 2006 Posts: 1912 Location: Boise, Idaho,
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Posted: 03-08-08 22:33pm
Wow/ That's a tough one because of age.
What about agreeing on specific nights -
no friends over. Do you think something
like that would work???
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jessesgirl
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Posted: 03-08-08 23:35pm
My husband and I always did things with
friends together. So, of course when I
got pregnant and didn't want to be out
around a bunch of smoking drunks, we just
didn't do it.
We'd have couple friends over to play
cards and stuff like that, but not to
"party".
I know you're both 17, but since you're
pregnant, he needs to straighten up and
compromise.
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oh_mommy
Supporter
Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Posts: 3689 Location: vancouver island, bc canada
Posted: 03-09-08 01:20am
shawn didnt really party, he use to get
drunk and stoned when he was 16 but he
hadnt done it in a long time when i met
him.. if he was into that when i met him i
wouldnt of dated him...
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october05_mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Aug 2007 Posts: 95 Location: Hartford City, Indiana, United States
Posted: 03-09-08 06:01am
My S/O is an awesome supporter during my
pregnancies, it's almost feels as if it
is, 'Our pregnancy." We're not big
drinkers anyways, but he hasn't had a
drink since the positive result at 6wks!
He also quit
smoking w.me aswell. Over the last year,
we've learned A LOT about true friends,
& have realized that we don't have a
one... so no problems w.friends. But..
most times, a little talk about your
feelings and concerns may help you out a
bit. And, Compromise. GL to you. You need
to feel relaxed.
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rosejackson
Supporter
Joined: 23 Dec 2005 Posts: 4326 Location: hertfordshire, england
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Posted: 03-09-08 07:23am
bobby took a while to adjust. but as soon
as william was born, he was a different
person. he took his responsibilities more
seriously
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 03-10-08 00:26am
october05_mommy
wrote:
My S/O is an awesome
supporter during my pregnancies, it's
almost feels as if it is, 'Our pregnancy."
We're not big drinkers anyways, but he
hasn't had a drink since the positive
result at 6wks! He also quit
smoking w.me aswell. Over the last year,
we've learned A LOT about true friends,
& have realized that we don't have a
one... so no problems w.friends. But..
most times, a little talk about your
feelings and concerns may help you out a
bit. And, Compromise. GL to you. You need
to feel relaxed.
My husband was like that with "our
pregnancy", too. He was a single father
of a teenager when I met him, so he was
very, very stable and didn't party at all.
Those are some of the reasons why I was
initially attracted to him. He made me
feel very safe and secure.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 03-10-08 06:09am
Dom goes out on a saturday night with
three of his friends after he's played
rugby but that's it
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krystineM
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Joined: 11 Oct 2007 Posts: 1355 Location: mississauga, ontario Canada
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Posted: 03-10-08 08:07am
my bf/fiance doesnt party near as much to
call it partying. on special occasions
like christmas, new years, a
function[greek dance, birthday] a once in
a few months party[which isnt very often
cuz our friends have kids too] our friends
throw, he'll have a drink or two, but then
have water and we'd jsut hang around and
chat about our summer camping trips and so
on.
Other than that, we usually just get
together with a group of our friends at a
little bar and grill that we all go to and
order chicken wings and pop while our
friends order pitchers of beer or mixed
drinks, but we just hang out chat it up
and then head home, more a get together
than party which i like. he doesnt drink
beer or alcohol at all unless its a
party/function, hes a health kick kind of
person which i like too
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Ayrshire-lass
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2007 Posts: 649 Location: Ayrshire, Scotland
Posted: 03-10-08 15:30pm
well 1st guy lol scott and i both ahd the
same friends we were from the same group
of people so if we had friends round it
was people who i wanted round as well. but
he partyed hard like every night b4 he
went away to iraq.
2nd now john yet again came from the same
group of people and weve not been hanging
about as much together but im letting him
live his life as hes only 17! but its up
to him if he changes b4 august or not. im
not stopping him. wish he could stay out
of trouble thought. but hes trying i can
see that
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lil_blaze2004
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Joined: 29 Oct 2004 Posts: 6492 Location: ,
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Posted: 03-11-08 09:08am
I finally left Mike (Trey's dad) when Trey
was 1 as most of the girls here know. I
was fed up of his friends always in the
house (We had a music studio in our
basement, so it was loud music on top of
friends) At this point Trey does not even
call his dad's house Daddy's. HE calls
it.....The WU-TANG house. lmao His dad
has 3 roomates who have their diff flavour
of the week over and I hate when he goes
there. Luckily it's only 4 days a month.
Mike needs to grow the bleep up. I don't
want to get too into it because it makes
me soooooooooooo mad but ya....He didn't
change.
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He also quit
smoking w.me aswell. Over the last year,
we've learned A LOT about true friends,
& have realized that we don't have a
one... so no problems w.friends. But..
most times, a little talk about your
feelings and concerns may help you out a
bit. And, Compromise. GL to you. You need
to feel relaxed.
