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tamtitootcom

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does she like me?
Posted: 06-10-08 18:28pm

hey folks, Allow me to start of by describing myself. I am a young adult male living alone in another country (not for studies), I have been told more than once that I am the center of attention and I can get a crowd to laugh very quickly. There is a family here in my neighborhood which love me very much as I am like a son at there house of only daughters. They have a daughter my age which I've got the hots for, I've been playing hard to get since day one. Heres why;
she always seems to be on the move, guys seem to be calling her a lot she goes through a relationship within a few months max. Her dad is an incredible person and will do almost anything for me. (right now hes building me a small apartment so i wont have to deal with this crappy landlord of mine). She also seems to call when she needs something.
Her dad encourages me to go out with her and her friends (this isn't a date guys). She laughs at my jokes, were grinding in the clubs, she is impressed with the way I dance,
We once went to the mall together a while ago for a very short time. I made the mistake of letting her drag me around the mall which she did her shopping, (it wasn't so bad, i gave her space in the stores and "i was looking at the mens section") other than this I've never really had the opportunity to be with her one on one to let her know how i feel.
One of the ways I give back to her family is by helping them with computer issues. Fixing computers is my profession. So I brought her to my dealer and we got her a great price on a new computer, The was a few hour process which I felt we both had a great time together. This included her dad giving me the car to pick her up from work (her idea) and making great conversation on the way to the dealer. I burned a nice music cd for the road which she likes my selection of music as it is exotic for her. Yea i may get a bit off topic so please excuse me If I sound like a little panzy now, She has casted a magic spell on me. Anyways the problem of lack of conversation should narrow down a bit now cause i set her up online facebook, instant messaging etc. And while I'm in her room with her on the computer shes very touchy, I forgot to mention her English test for a job interview a few months ago which she called me over for to help her with her English, She was playing footsies with me and i didn't pay much attention. I cannot say no to her because Its like saying no to her father, She gets on his case when i try to not come. Lately Ive been noticing her asking me questions on my personal opinion on things. Shes been asking me about my girlfriend whom i don't love and we just broke up last week. She has been telling me ALOT about this "friend" she is seeing. (they aren't dating), She said he can play that song Leona Lewis - Bleeding love on guitar and sing it to her. So i said thats not hard, That night i checked it up online and its just a few chords. I can prob play it better than her wonderful friend. :-p. so i told her i learned the song along with a few other songs i knew she liked, and each time i see her shes been asking me why didn't i bring my guitar to play it for her. Shes been asking me questions about my sexual life which i replied nicely what does it have to do with her. On the car ride back from the computer purchase I asked her if she can ever see us as a couple. Took a bit of work to get the words out of her mouth, but she said that we would fight all the time (shes a handful) which i replied thats a healthy relationship and she replied back not all the time. I sence she was lying when she said this. When I am at her house with gatherings of people and shes trying to get my attention, ill give her a bit of work before i give her full attention, Everyone else in the room wants my attention to so why not make her work a bit. When we make eye contact her eyes just don't stop glaring and i feel something just by the way she looks at me, I never seem to catch her staring at me. I am most definitely missing a bunch of detail, There are stages where we speak for a while than we don't, but what I just described has been the heaviest week between us 2 in my opinion, yes i know its not much but I fear her dads rejection more than i fear hers. Even if there is a chance that shes crazy about me, I wouldn't want to take her for a typical girlfriend because I'm rather turned off from the fact that shes been in 2 or 3 relationships in the last year and they all failed. If I am going to wipe this girl from her feet its going to be with a ring on her finger cause shes to perfect in my eyes. Dont get me wrong, I'm not ready for marriage at this point in my life. To continue, I see girls which are "more attractive" than her all the time, but its her personally which I'm crazy about. Shes cute to but thats not the point. Theres more than just me and her involved in this dilemma its her family which i love to. I continue my game till the next time she needs something from me, I'm cool with the fact that shes seeing other guys "NOW" and My sex life is good currently. I just look at it as one day in the future we may be together. And if not, Than thats cool to because I dont know how faithful this girl can be with all her drama. But each time I do for her a favors I go home drooling all over myself about her. Tonight she was trying to show me how to dance to bachata (some type of sexy Spanish dance) as for she knows i wanted to learn this dance from the conversation we had during the computer shopping spree. So she grabbed my arm and started showing me, I had to stop her cause i would feel really uncomfortable if her dad walked in. She invited me to her dance class that same night after she purchased the computer, but i was to tired to go from a long day of work than helping her the remainder of the day, it turns out that the class was canceled that night anyways. Last thing, Tonight i took care of the last of her computer needs for now and i opened her up a facebook account for relationship status she said to me "theres no one night stands?" which was kind of a turn off, but i replied "we could of been in this business together a long time ago". we both were laughing hysterically, but she said something along the lines of "stoooop" in her feminine joking tone of voice. I dont exactly remember. thanks guys for reading, I'm sure i missed a lot if important details out, also excuse the lack of order. I wont the slightest bit be surprised if you guys have more questions to ask me before you post your answer.

does she like me? What is going on here between us?
waiting for your answers


mods or admins - please make sure this article doesnt get posted elsewere. I would like to delete this post in the very near future, Also I made a typo on my username (yes i know thats silly) is there a way to change it?
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tamtitootcom

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Posted: 06-12-08 20:25pm

wow, i guess this is not so interesting! :-p
any advice would be much appreciated!
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EddyMc

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Posted: 06-22-08 14:22pm

Your wall of txt just hit me in the face for 9000, its very hard to read.

The question you need to ask yourself is, do you want to lose her family, if you start a relationship with her and it goes bad be ready to take all that happens.

She could be either playing with you wanting to see if you will make a move one her or as she actually likes you, you have to decide which one.

If you like her I personally would go for it, I would hold off having sex with her for a little bit to make sure she likes you the way you like her, bringing sex into a relationship totally changes the way you will feel about her, and if she is only playing with you you could get hurt badly.

Eddy
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tamtitootcom

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Posted: 06-22-08 15:43pm

eddy thanks for the reply! i agree with you about being careful and not loosing the entire family!
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Desiro

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Posted: 07-18-08 04:54am

how u know if girl likes u?- this girl i know oftn looks at me smiles/laughs but she has bf so im all confused is it still possible for girl who has bf to like u in that way and how u know?
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tamtitootcom

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Posted: 07-18-08 10:10am

desiro,

I decided to put on my pants and i called her to meet me.

I said to her, i like her but not how she thinks, but more than that.
She said she does not like me that way. I'm not worried cause there
are many girls in my sea right now! even if she was lieng or ashmed
to express her feelings, its her loss.

desiro, there is nothing more powerful than the truth.. tell her how you feel if you like her more than a friend.
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