hey folks, Allow me to start of by
describing myself. I am a young adult male
living alone in another country (not for
studies), I have been told more than once
that I am the center of attention and I
can get a crowd to laugh very quickly.
There is a family here in my neighborhood
which love me very much as I am like a son
at there house of only daughters. They
have a daughter my age which I've got the
hots for, I've been playing hard to get
since day one. Heres why;
she always seems to be on the move, guys
seem to be calling her a lot she goes
through a relationship within a few months
max. Her dad is an incredible person and
will do almost anything for me. (right now
hes building me a small apartment so i
wont have to deal with this crappy
landlord of mine). She also seems to call
when she needs something.
Her dad encourages me to go out with her
and her friends (this isn't a date guys).
She laughs at my jokes, were grinding in
the clubs, she is impressed with the way I
dance,
We once went to the mall together a while
ago for a very short time. I made the
mistake of letting her drag me around the
mall which she did her shopping, (it
wasn't so bad, i gave her space in the
stores and "i was looking at the mens
section") other than this I've never
really had the opportunity to be with her
one on one to let her know how i feel.
One of the ways I give back to her family
is by helping them with computer issues.
Fixing computers is my profession. So I
brought her to my dealer and we got her a
great price on a new computer, The was a
few hour process which I felt we both had
a great time together. This included her
dad giving me the car to pick her up from
work (her idea) and making great
conversation on the way to the dealer. I
burned a nice music cd for the road which
she likes my selection of music as it is
exotic for her. Yea i may get a bit off
topic so please excuse me If I sound like
a little panzy now, She has casted a magic
spell on me. Anyways the problem of lack
of conversation should narrow down a bit
now cause i set her up online facebook,
instant messaging etc. And while I'm in
her room with her on the computer shes
very touchy, I forgot to mention her
English test for a job interview a few
months ago which she called me over for to
help her with her English, She was playing
footsies with me and i didn't pay much
attention. I cannot say no to her because
Its like saying no to her father, She gets
on his case when i try to not come. Lately
Ive been noticing her asking me questions
on my personal opinion on things. Shes
been asking me about my girlfriend whom i
don't love and we just broke up last week.
She has been telling me ALOT about this
"friend" she is seeing. (they aren't
dating), She said he can play that song
Leona Lewis - Bleeding love on guitar and
sing it to her. So i said thats not hard,
That night i checked it up online and its
just a few chords. I can prob play it
better than her wonderful friend. :-p. so
i told her i learned the song along with a
few other songs i knew she liked, and each
time i see her shes been asking me why
didn't i bring my guitar to play it for
her. Shes been asking me questions about
my sexual life which i replied nicely what
does it have to do with her. On the car
ride back from the computer purchase I
asked her if she can ever see us as a
couple. Took a bit of work to get the
words out of her mouth, but she said that
we would fight all the time (shes a
handful) which i replied thats a healthy
relationship and she replied back not all
the time. I sence she was lying when she
said this. When I am at her house with
gatherings of people and shes trying to
get my attention, ill give her a bit of
work before i give her full attention,
Everyone else in the room wants my
attention to so why not make her work a
bit. When we make eye contact her eyes
just don't stop glaring and i feel
something just by the way she looks at me,
I never seem to catch her staring at me. I
am most definitely missing a bunch of
detail, There are stages where we speak
for a while than we don't, but what I just
described has been the heaviest week
between us 2 in my opinion, yes i know its
not much but I fear her dads rejection
more than i fear hers. Even if there is a
chance that shes crazy about me, I
wouldn't want to take her for a typical
girlfriend because I'm rather turned off
from the fact that shes been in 2 or 3
relationships in the last year and they
all failed. If I am going to wipe this
girl from her feet its going to be with a
ring on her finger cause shes to perfect
in my eyes. Dont get me wrong, I'm not
ready for marriage at this point in my
life. To continue, I see girls which are
"more attractive" than her all the time,
but its her personally which I'm crazy
about. Shes cute to but thats not the
point. Theres more than just me and her
involved in this dilemma its her family
which i love to. I continue my game till
the next time she needs something from me,
I'm cool with the fact that shes seeing
other guys "NOW" and My sex life is good
currently. I just look at it as one day in
the future we may be together. And if not,
Than thats cool to because I dont know how
faithful this girl can be with all her
drama. But each time I do for her a favors
I go home drooling all over myself about
her. Tonight she was trying to show me how
to dance to bachata (some type of sexy
Spanish dance) as for she knows i wanted
to learn this dance from the conversation
we had during the computer shopping spree.
So she grabbed my arm and started showing
me, I had to stop her cause i would feel
really uncomfortable if her dad walked in.
She invited me to her dance class that
same night after she purchased the
computer, but i was to tired to go from a
long day of work than helping her the
remainder of the day, it turns out that
the class was canceled that night anyways.
Last thing, Tonight i took care of the
last of her computer needs for now and i
opened her up a facebook account for
relationship status she said to me "theres
no one night stands?" which was kind of a
turn off, but i replied "we could of been
in this business together a long time
ago". we both were laughing hysterically,
but she said something along the lines of
"stoooop" in her feminine joking tone of
voice. I dont exactly remember. thanks
guys for reading, I'm sure i missed a lot
if important details out, also excuse the
lack of order. I wont the slightest bit be
surprised if you guys have more questions
to ask me before you post your answer.
does she like me? What is going on here
between us?
waiting for your answers
mods or admins - please make sure this
article doesnt get posted elsewere. I
would like to delete this post in the very
near future, Also I made a typo on my
username (yes i know thats silly) is there
a way to change it?
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tamtitootcom
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2008 Posts: 6
Posted: 06-12-08 20:25pm
wow, i guess this is not so interesting!
:-p
any advice would be much appreciated!
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EddyMc
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Joined: 20 Jun 2008 Posts: 23 Location: , Ireland
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Posted: 06-22-08 14:22pm
Your wall of txt just hit me in the face
for 9000, its very hard to read.
The question you need to ask yourself is,
do you want to lose her family, if you
start a relationship with her and it goes
bad be ready to take all that happens.
She could be either playing with you
wanting to see if you will make a move one
her or as she actually likes you, you have
to decide which one.
If you like her I personally would go for
it, I would hold off having sex with her
for a little bit to make sure she likes
you the way you like her, bringing sex
into a relationship totally changes the
way you will feel about her, and if she is
only playing with you you could get hurt
badly.
Eddy
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tamtitootcom
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2008 Posts: 6
Posted: 06-22-08 15:43pm
eddy thanks for the reply! i agree with
you about being careful and not loosing
the entire family!
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Desiro
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jul 2008 Posts: 2
Posted: 07-18-08 04:54am
how u know if girl likes u?- this girl i
know oftn looks at me smiles/laughs but
she has bf so im all confused is it still
possible for girl who has bf to like u in
that way and how u know?
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tamtitootcom
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2008 Posts: 6
Posted: 07-18-08 10:10am
desiro,
I decided to put on my pants and i called
her to meet me.
I said to her, i like her but not how she
thinks, but more than that.
She said she does not like me that way.
I'm not worried cause there
are many girls in my sea right now! even
if she was lieng or ashmed
to express her feelings, its her loss.
desiro, there is nothing more powerful
than the truth.. tell her how you feel if
you like her more than a friend.