Early pregnancy termination and its complication Posted: 03-14-08 09:14am
Hi all,
I had sex with my wife on 10th day of
cycle(cycle started on 11th feb and 10th
day of the cycle was 20th
feb),unfortunately condom was torn.
She was supposed to have the cycle started
on 11th March(may be 1 or 2 days before or
after,normally her cycle is regular and it
is 28 days).
She did not bleed on 11th march which was
supposed to be her first day of the cycle.
the main problem is between 10th day and
14th day when the most fertile day comes
for the woman, difference is only for 4
days and What I know that sperm stays for
5 days in vagina and if ovulution occurs
that it can be a pregnancy.
Now it has been almost 25 days(20th feb
since the time we had sex and condom was
torn and untill 14th march).
We do not want child now. Could you guide
us whether is it too late(it is been
almost 4 weeks(25 days) to terminate the
early pregnancy if it is?
I know start of cycle varies for each
woman and she may be late for some days
also but I am thinking if somehow she is
pregnant then what are the ways, is
medical treatment by abortion pills option
is good, I mean taking 2 mifepristone and
misoprostol under doctor supervision is a
good option or not? I am from India
(Delhi) and I donot what are the options
to terminate the early pregnancy, do any
one of you have any idea about relaiable
methods to terminate pregnancy in India
(Delhi).
What do you think it has been 25 days
since the time we had sex on 10th day and
she wa supposed to have cycle started but
she did not bleed on 11th march on which
she was supposed to have her first day,
should we wait for some more time(and if
yes then how long should we wait) so that
her cycle starts and then go for the
pregnancy blood or urinte test.
could any one of you let me now from your
experience that is medical treatment by
abortion pills harmfull for woman health
or is there any other complicacy or most
important does it impact future pregnancy
at all?
I am impatiently waiting for your reply
kindly give me some detailed answer.
Thanks,
Mahen
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lucy315
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Posted: 03-14-08 16:46pm
If she missed her period (you mentioned it
should have been about 3 days ago) a
pregnancy test would probably show
negative or positive for pregnancy by now.
That is the first thing you need to do.
IF she is indeed pregnant, then you can
get an abortion. 41/2 weeks is not too
early. As for the types of abortion, I
would recommend surgical over medical
(pill). I don't have personal experience
with a medical abortion, but I did stay
with a good friend when she did hers. She
had a lot of cramping and was very sick to
her stomach as well. A surgical abortion
is quick, and has MUCH less bleeding and
cramping. I was back at work the same
night I had mine.
