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first major relationship Posted: 03-28-08 19:11pm


Okay so I am in love with my boyfriend and we have been dating for almost 9 months and I'm guessing I should know everything about him and be his PERFECT GIRL like he says but I'm NOT! So when we get into arguements I get suck and dont know what to do to make it better knowing that its my fault! But when we are fine and okay everything that makes him happy is like a list in my head. (I remember everything) I just want to know why when we fight everything gose away!?!?!?! I hate it because then we both get hurt. I think its because this is my first major relationship? I dont want to lose him so I guess thats why I get suck! Please help me I dont what this to go down hill

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OK Posted: 03-29-08 07:22am


So what I am reading is he wants a perfect girlfriend and you are supposed to live up to those expectations? I hate to be the person with the bad news hon but, that is NOT the guy for you. First of all, there is no perfect anything in this world much less people. If he is looking for the perfect girl, he will be old and gray when he finds one if at all. If this is your first relationship, then please don't let you heart overrule you head. There are more fish in the sea that will appreciate you for what you are. And that will be a real relationship. I say get rid of him girl, it is because it is your first venture into love. There is more out there waiting for you. Sounds like he is threatening you into being someone else in his dreams. Best of luck,

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well.... Posted: 03-29-08 16:12pm


I guess I dont know him as much ads he knows me that what I feel like and hes perfect and knows what I want and I dont so I guess thats what im trying to say

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