get soft during sexual intercourse Posted: 05-19-08 21:13pm
Hey there. I'm new to this forum and it
seemed a great place to throw out my
questions and concerns to see what advice
and opinions I get from those who may know
a bit more than I do.
I'm 24, about to be 25, and was a virgin
by choice until I met my current
girlfriend. I'm 5'11" and about 260
pounds. My first experiences in
masturbation started when I was 13 years
old in eighth grade. I have had no
erectile or ejaculation problems since
then. On average, I masturbate about once
daily, sometimes once every two days.
My first sexual encounter was about six
months ago when my girlfriend wanted to
perform oral sex on me. Unaware of any
problems, I had trouble "keeping it up"
and simply blamed it on nerves, or
inexperience. She was aware of my
virginity. Several weeks later, we
attempted actual intercourse and had no
problems besides the typical "nerves".
Currently, we are trying to be sexually
active, but in our most recent sexual
experiences, either oral or vaginal, I
simply "get soft" after starting out fully
erect. I am unsure of what could be
causing this problem and quite honestly,
am a bit bothered by it. The only form of
intimacy that has caused me to reach
orgasm was her manual stimulation.
I don't know what to chalk this up to,
perhaps I'm just used to the "feel" and
pace of myself during mastubation, so I've
tried to cut back on the frequency of
that. I've also heard that men who do not
start having sex before the age of 22 will
encounter problems as well. I will soon
be seeing my physician about this problem,
however, if anybody out there is
knowledgeable about this, or has
experienced a similar problem, I'd
appreciate any help, advice, or insight.
Your thoughts are greatly appreciated.
Thanks again!
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Calleas
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 May 2008 Posts: 4
Have the same problem Posted: 05-20-08 19:47pm
Hey man i have the same problem. Right in
the middle of the sex sometimes i'll just
lose the errection.
-----I've been masturbating since i was
13ish as well. And as far as i have seen,
the masturbation is the cause. I
masturbate at least once a day - once in a
while if the girl goes away for a day or
two that figure can jump. But If i stop
cold, masturbating, for a couple of days
and then have sex with my girlfriend, its
not a problem.
The trouble is just not masturbating. heh.
Try it out - send me a post or a pm if it
works for ya
