xbostonx
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gspot orgasims
Posted: 03-16-08 22:00pm
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i can only cum from my clit and only when
im on top during sex. no matter how much
my boyfriend plays with it i never cum. i
have never had a gspot orgasims. does this
happen to anyone else. also my boyfriends
sex drive had gone down since we started
going out 2 years ago. it seems now that
im hornier than he is. any suggestions?
thanks.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 03-17-08 01:41am
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You're normal. Only 10% of women can
orgasm from just the vagina. There may be
nothing you can do. I've never done it
either.
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collegegirlie
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Posted: 03-18-08 12:17pm
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My bf is being the same way. All I can say
is MAKE HIM WORK FOR IT. My best friend
who I tell everything is a guy and I told
him what was going on between me and my
bf, that I am horny all the time and he
never wants sex. My friend told me that it
must be somewhat routine for him, so its
not as exciting anymore. Hold out and make
him work for it again, like he used to
have to when it was new. And when you do
do it try new things to keep him guessing.
Guys love the feeling of accomplishment.
I just started this with my bf about a
week ago and think its working!
As for the orgams, rub your clit yourself
during sex. It works great. and Sometimes
I will do it then when you get close you
can stop and you dont even need to
stimulate your clit to orgasm if he is
hitting your g spot.
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xbostonx
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Posted: 03-18-08 13:06pm
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yeah i think i am going to start holding
out i did it for a little while but then i
caved in. But we recently bought a
vibrator and he loves when we play it or
watching me play with it.
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collegegirlie
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Posted: 03-18-08 13:15pm
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I know, I have a hard time holding out
too. But come on we can do it!! lol, i
really think this will work for us.
Do little things like dont bring the
vibrator into the bed, dont mention it,
wait till he wants it bad enough that HE
goes to get it.
Like my bf loves when I touch myself
during sex, but lately i dont do it.
Yesterday he wanted it so bad he grabbed
my hand and put it there and told me to do
it.
We need to make THEM beg, haha.
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xbostonx
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Posted: 03-18-08 13:21pm
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haha yeah we do. i have a pair of booty
shorts that he loves. so sumtimes i walk
around wearing them just to tease him its
great l0l.
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collegegirlie
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Posted: 03-18-08 13:25pm
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or something else you can do. Walk around
without a bra on on a day that you dont
wanna have sex. That makes him so mad lol
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xbostonx
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Posted: 03-18-08 13:29pm
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haha sweet. Also does you bf not like to
make out with you as much anymore?
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collegegirlie
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Posted: 03-18-08 13:33pm
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yea! god that sucks too cuz i love making
out. Something I do to get him to makeout
with me is, when he is sleeping I will
kiss him lightly and he'll wake up and
kiss me back and then I use tongue. This
turns him on so bad, and and it usually
ends in a little more than making out ^.-
but other than that I have no tricks for
getting him to makeout  i need to come up
with more.
do you have any?
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xbostonx
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Posted: 03-18-08 13:37pm
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no i dont have any at all really. Ill kiss
his neck then ill start kissing him but if
i kiss him like 5 times in a row he still
just gives me pecks. its like they only
want to have sex when they want too and
wont let us turn them on. its not fair l0l
god forbid if we have sex when WE want too
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collegegirlie
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Posted: 03-18-08 13:43pm
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I know I feel the same exact way. Have you
told him that?
I told mine and he just argued stupid
stuff like "you make it a job". what? how
is it a job. I just want sex. Its sex, not
a job lol. Like its not the same thing
when HE wants it and I do it for him. It
hurts cuz its like- if you love me, why
dont you want me as much as i want you?
Why is my desire for you a JOB? To me his
desire for me makes me feel loved. Its not
fair...
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xbostonx
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Posted: 03-18-08 13:53pm
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yeah i have told me that and we pretty
much had the same conversation. Ive been
with him for 2 years and he just told me
like 2 weeks ago that he thought the first
like 8 months of our relationship was
based on sex. when he told me this i was
in shock. i could not believe he said that
seeing that he gave me a promise ring for
our 6 month anniversary. that really hurt
my feelings. I can suggest you trying the
vibrator and porn thing. My boyfriend
knowing that i have one i think has helped
a little bit lately.
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collegegirlie
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Posted: 03-19-08 09:39am
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I don't think its fair for you to just sit
there and let him do this. Do you really
wanna be with him forever and let your
relationship continue down hill like this?
I really think we have to make it better
NOW or its only gunna get worse and worse
over time.
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xbostonx
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Posted: 03-19-08 09:44am
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i knowww. the past couple of days have
been pretty good though. so hopefully it
is getting beter.
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collegegirlie
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Posted: 03-19-08 09:46am
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omg me too. lol. I am just scared its
gunna go away again, like it always does.
Does it seem to come in spurts for you
guys?
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xbostonx
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Posted: 03-19-08 09:51am
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yeah he deff. gets into his little moods
for sure. so the past few days were good.
we played around a bit last night but
didnt have sex. i wasn't feeling well so
we didnt. but probably more than likely
its gunna go away. i also posted this
probable in the guy sectiion and i found
out that a guys sexual peak ends around
20ish and a womens doesnt stop until the
30's. im not sure how true that is though.
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collegegirlie
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Posted: 03-19-08 09:53am
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I've read that but I've also read that its
different for everyone. But I know 30 and
40 year old men that can't get anough sex
too.
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xbostonx
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Posted: 03-19-08 09:58am
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yeah i work with sum guys in there 30's
and they can get enough. i dont know if
maybe its because we've been together for
2 years so maybe its just not as exciting.
somebody recommended a game called "A hot
affair" have u ever heard of it?
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collegegirlie
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xbostonx
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Posted: 03-19-08 10:02am
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i guess its a sex game you can play with
your partner. sum1 suggested it to me to
spice things up
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