Hard erections and relaxed vaginal muscles Posted: 07-07-08 01:57am
I desparately need your help doctor.
I got married recently before 2 months and
we have still not had sexual intercourse
even once. :(
Whenever we try having sex, I find it very
difficult to penetrate. I have found the
vaginal opening but it does not penetrate
when I try to insert. She says it is too
tight and she always fears insertion for
some reason. I have problems with my knees
and hence i cannot bend my knees well.
Also please advice which position is the
most suited and easily allows
penetration.
I am able to masturbate everyday without
problems but with a slight pain on the
edges of the penis. That happened after I
was operated on my penis and done a half
circumcision.
Help. this is ruining my marriage :(
Don
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Sexual Health - Men Answer A4374 Posted: 07-07-08 21:02pm
If your erection is okay the problem is
not in you but mainly in her. Even with a
hard enough erection it is not easy to
penetrate a vagina that is very tight and
dry.
It is another problem if your erection is
not hard enough or you feel pain because
of a penis disorder.
You can try to relax your wife when trying
to have sex. You shouldn’t rush to
insert your penis in her vagina. Foreplay
is very important to relax vaginal muscles
and make the vagina wet so that it can
easily accept the penetration. Lubricant
might help in your case. You can try all
the positions and find the most suitable
one(s).
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