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Having a Bad Day Posted: 03-20-08 20:27pm
So me and my mom have been arguing all day
and when I got home tonight she made me
feel like crap and I have been crying ever
since....(could also be the hormones)
She said (not asked) she was coming to the
first ultrasound with us and I told her
that we wanted the first one to just be
us, becuase after the miscarraige it means
something to us to be able to share that
moment together of hopefully hearing the
heartbeat for the first time since we
didnt get to last time.
Well she flipped out and said I made the
biggest mistake of my life by pushing her
out of my life, and we werent the only
ones affected by the miscarriage, and she
cant believe how selfish I am and she is
blaming it all on Matt (my
boyfriend)...she came up in my room and
yelled at me and started crying but when I
went to say something she said "I dont
wanna hear it" and walked out of my room
and slammed the door.
Am I wrong for wanting the first one to
just be me and Matt???
Everyone thinks its fine except my mom and
she is taking the whole thing wrong.
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Ingi
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Posted: 03-20-08 21:14pm
No, you aren't wrong for wanting it to
just be you two.
It sounds like she is taking it wrong.
Maybe you could tape the heartbeat and
give her one of those frames where you can
record something into it - put the
ultrasound photo in it with the heartbeat
as the recorded message and give it to
her.
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tiamccoy819
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Joined: 27 Oct 2007 Posts: 584 Location: Elkton, Maryland,
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Posted: 03-20-08 21:27pm
Ingi
wrote:
No, you aren't wrong for
wanting it to just be you two.
It sounds like she is taking it wrong.
Maybe you could tape the heartbeat and
give her one of those frames where you can
record something into it - put the
ultrasound photo in it with the heartbeat
as the recorded message and give it to
her.
maybe i will try and do something like
that...i never thought about soemthing
like that before. Thanks for the idea!!
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