he left me pregnant and sad Posted: 03-09-08 16:08pm
We got married a little over a year ago.
He cheated on me repeatedly and I still
kept forgiving him and taking him back. He
went to jail in late September right after
he got me pregnant. I stood by him thru it
all and he was there for statutory rape.
He was sleeping with a 16 year old, mind u
he is 32. I stood by him I paid a lawyer
10,000 to beat his case. He got out in
late January we celebrated our
anniversary, we celebrated having a son on
the way. And then last week he up and left
no reason at all. He left me in the worst
possible position. I can't work on bed
rest due to complications. I spent my
savings on his lawyer. And am now just
screwed. The problem is I still want him
to come back. All I do is cry. I can't
eat, I can't sleep. How do I stop loving
him. My other child is extremely attached
to him he's the only "dad" she has ever
known he has been in our life for over 3
years now. How do I make this hurt go
away?????
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Ivy25
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2007 Posts: 46 Location: Harrisburg, Pa USA
Posted: 03-16-08 02:29am
You should tell your child the truth. Say
that her dad left and you don't know if he
s going to come back. She won't be happy
at first but over time that feeling will
decrease and she will have to except that
chapter in her life. I recommend you do
the same. Just except it as a chapter in
you life. Certainly you can't just stop
loving him. You need to move on. He is
gone now and there is a possibility he
isn't coming back. Right now is the time
to be with your child and your soon to be
born one.
