He says he loves me but just wont b with me..... Posted: 09-22-08 02:41am
Okay i,ve been with this guy 4 3 years for
the first two years our relationship was
great...lil arguments here n there but
what couple doesnt hav those....So after
the two years went by he began 2 cheat on
me with an ex...After I found out I became
very upset but n the end ended up takin
him back....Now ever since then my trust
in him has been gone n he never stopped
cheating after that....
So eventually we broke up....After we
broken up we remained in contact as
"Friends with benefits" ...This went on
for about 3 months n durin this time I
became intimate with two different
guys....Also me n my ex had a three some
with one of my friends....I choose 2 do
this act with my friend because I thought
I could trust her....
Then I found out my so called friend
started 2 sleep with my ex behind my back
n they were secretly seein each other
behind my back n shes been tellin him
about the guys I was intimate with which
had him very furious with me....
Now this long chain of events doesnt end
here...Now after all of that I'm still in
love with this guy n I cant get him out of
my mind...He calls me and tells me that he
love me n that im all he thinks about but
he doesnt wanna b with me rite now....He
is still in a relationship with my ex
friend but he still calls n confesses how
much he loves me...I've even seen him a
couple of days wen he goes 2 his moms
house...
Heres where I need my advice....Im stuck I
dont know what I should do Now I love this
guy more than neone else in this
world....I really feel like he is the one
I wanna b with 4 the rest of my life but I
dont know where his feelins 4 me lies...He
says he loves me n that he thinks about me
all the time but he continually pulls away
from me n he tells me he wants 2 c if he
could love nebody the way he loves me or
am I really his true love....
WHAT SHOULD I DO????????????
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petery2k562
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Posted: 09-22-08 21:40pm
He's lying...
I'm sorry missy but it sounds like he is
only saying the three magic words "I love
you" for his own "benefit".
Basically I feel strongly that he is only
keeping you around to satisfy his own
needs. He is manipulating you...
Leave him, get away from him, just forget
about him.
He is not worth it.
I'm sorry to say, there are men like him.
-Peter
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zigemyster
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Posted: 09-22-08 22:05pm
Walk away, forget about him and don't look
back nor waste another second of YOUR time
on that lying cheat.
You are holding onto a small hope that
what he tells you is true however think
about it...IF and it's a BIG if he did
come back to you wouldn't be able to trust
him.
As Peter has stated, he is manipulating
you and I might add you are manipulating
yourself as well.
Actually don't walk away, run run as fast
as you can. Have a good ole' cry if that
is what it takes to get him out of your
system....and don't take any calls from
him or visits, letters, nada...cut all
ties.
Reread your post and just for a moment
pretend that it is not about you but some
stranger...what advice would you give that
person? I would hope it would be what
Peter and I have given you.
