help me someone advice needed Posted: 03-20-08 13:15pm
I relucent to talk about this but my
boyfriend and I have known one another for
years but never got together because of
differences when we where kids. Recently
he broke up with his sons mother and I
HAVEN'T BEEN WITH MY KIDS FATHER FOR A
LONG TIME SEXUALLY..... but I have had 2
other parnter besides my boyfriend but
with the 2 other guys I know I use
protection I always did, but I slipped
with my boyfriend and we havent used
protection because it isn't a big deal if
I get pregnant but this is my
problem...........His baby mother like to
talk out of her terms and today said to me
that my boyfriend has herpes and gave it
to her. My problem is should I believe
this or not. I mean regardless what is
true or not I am still getting tested
shortly. but should I approach him or
what. This is not the first time I heard
this but people talk so. I mean his baby
mother would yell down the street at him
"that why you have herpes" taking to
embarass him.............. please anyone
give me advice..........
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Pocahontas101
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Mar 2008 Posts: 15
Posted: 03-20-08 14:41pm
Okay I think both of you should get tested
just to be on the safe side. If the test
comes back positive then you both should
seek help ASAP.If you decide to stike
together thats up to both of you. Know if
it comes back neg. Then you talk to his
baby mother and let her know to leave your
relationship with him the hell alone. So
she either jealous or tellin the truth. I
know he might look at you like your crazy
when askin him to take the test , But just
tellin him that it has nothing to do with
trust you trust him but you want to get
tested to know that when you talk to his
baby mother you want to be 100% sure what
your tell her so she can stop botherin you
and stop makin up stuff to seperate both
of you. I hope this helps, good luck. Oh
and let me know how everything turned out
. Later. XOXO
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Maddie34
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Posted: 03-20-08 15:30pm
I think if you're comfortable enough to be
having sex, then you should be comfortable
enough to be talking about the possibility
of stds with your partner. If you've heard
this before then why on earth would you
have unprotected sex with him?
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xbostonx
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2008 Posts: 96 Location: Boston, MA
Posted: 03-20-08 16:31pm
I would try to sit down and talk him. Tell
him that you are getting tested and you
think that he should go with you and get
tested just in case. I think everyone
should get tested at least once a year.
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