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ladyT02

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Posted: 03-16-08 22:19pm

my boyfriend has been hanging out alot with his friends. i mean thats fine, hes an adult and has the right to. im not the type of clingy girlfriend. but everytime that he's out he doesnt let me know if hes ok to drive anymore. he used to do it on his own out of consideration but now he doesnt and ends up coming home drunk and high and passes out asleep. the next morning he goes to work, does the same and i only get to see him when he gets home to sleep.

i feel absolutely lonely and have even started feeling neglected. i dont get to see him anymore or spend a night alone like we used to. now he hangs out with his friends gets high and drives home drunk. i really want to know why hes acting like this so suddenly, maybe hes getting bored of me?
he started haning out twice a week, then it became 3 times a week, not its almost 4 times a week after work. plus we used to stay in touch via txt and now when i txt him something either he never gets back to me or just leaves me hanging and its really annoying. (a few suprise dinners have gone to waste cause he doesnt reply anymore) i'd really love some input from guys and girls alike Sad thanks guys
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Maddie34

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Posted: 03-20-08 11:39am

How about you talk it over with him? If you're feeling neglected then say it, but word it differently. If you want to know why he's drinking so much then ask. And catch him in the morning and tell him you want to hang out tonight just the two of you so you can have this talk. Don't do any of it over text messages.
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Posted: 06-01-08 19:16pm

It sounds like your boyfriend has a problem of some sory and is trying to avoid it. I'm not saying that the problem is with you. You definatly need to talk to him right away and tell him how you feel and ask him what's up.
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