HIV/AIDS STD sex w/ prostitute

i didn't kiss her @ all, i only kissed her nipple twice as I said earlier...

I need answers coz if there's any change i could be infected with HIV.. I should make the appropriate tests & check my health status.. after all i don't want to infect my GF or anybody else "if i may be infected"

No judgements here, but, please think before you act.

You need to.

After relief sometimes comes guilt and regret. If you want to take a HIV test, you must wait three months from the point of infection. Good for you for using protection because that stops any infection from getting into the bloodstream. What happens during sex is that because of friction, little cuts and tears appear on the penis and in the membrane of the vagina or anus. And that is how the virus gets into the bloodstream. A lubricated condom keeps things nice and smooth. I don't think you are infected with HIV but that can only be cleared in the mind after you have taken a HIV test. I wish you the best with that.

About cheating on you GF, that is another story and you must forgive yourself and if necessary, masturbate the next time you feel horny.

You may get herpes on the area that the condom does not cover. You must be careful out there. We play a dangerous game when we put ourselves out to people we do not know. Having said that, even people we know can infect us. We must be careful through and through.

I used to be a prostitute and so I can understand a lot about that and that is why I commend you on using protection. Don't beat yourself up too much but change behaviour from now on. Resist, survive and overcome. You can do it...

well.. I told my GF... & we r working things out... I'll make the test after 3 to 6 month... & mostly "hopefully" i'm not infected.. . I mean i used a condom that covered most of my penis, it didn't tear or slip, i didn't go 4 kissing or deep kissing, i didn't do anything but missionary so that i never have any of her fluids on my body.. I tried my best to keep it on the safe side..
after all, anything is possible.. anyway thanks 4 the replies

Dear all,
actually since the day i made this relation, I'm suffering dry throght, dry mouth, fever,flu, headache, sweatining (only started 4 days ago), & tiredeness .. also i had skin itching for the 1st about 8 days after the intercourse i had... i've read about the flu & fever, it says that they remain for 7 days maximum.. But i'm suffering them for the last 19 days?!?!
the problem is that i live in a foreign country.. & I have no chance of making an HIV test.. because if it's positive, I'll be kicked out of the country forever...

so please, tell me if those are a SERIOUS indicators of an HIV positive case ?

Get tested for HIV and STDs...it is a quick and EZ process and free in most places. Do not play around with your sexual life...it is dangerous. Get tested and if it come back negative then count your lucky stars and never be un safe again. If it comes back positive then you will have to make some changes in your life but if you take your meds and get rest and exercise then you will be OK. Go get tested, that is the only way to know for sure...good luck to you.

the problem is that i live in a foreign country.. & I have no chance of making an HIV test.. because if it's positive, I'll be kicked out of the country forever...

What country are you in? Mson is right, you should still be OK to get tested anonymously unless you are in China or somewhere where the laws are very weird and strict. Maybe you could even use an alias if they insist on a name but almost every country has anonymous testing centers.

well.. I'm in an arabian country... so it's almost impossible to do this,coz they believe that a HIV person is a real RELAGIOUS SINFUL GUY & should AT LEAST be punished ALL WAYS POSSIBLE :s
I'm trying to go to Canada to make the test... but i'm unable to get vocation @ all...

however, can a flu actually last for 19 days ?!
does the symptoms written above increases or decreases the chance of me being infected ?
knowing that:
1- i'm VERY anxious about the whole thing "so HOPE my anxiety is the reason behind all of this
2- I've bewen a smoker for seven years.. & i stopped that 2 years ago... so this may have weaken my defense systems against fever & other infections regarding my BREATHING system...

OK, now I understand. No, you cant get tested in an Arabian country, it isn't safe at all. They are not tolerant there. I suggest you try to relax and take a deep breath. If you are HIV+ then a few weeks is not going to really matter 2 much. But you need to get out of that country as soon as possible and get to the USA or Canada or England or Germany, France, somewhere where the people and the government are more tolerant. It sucks but thats life. Do not have sex with any one until you can get away and get tested. You will be OK as long as you keep your head together and your emotions in check. Do not worry, you aren't going to die or get extremely ill at this point. Yes, you can have a flue for 2 to 3 weeks, that happens. It could be a lot of things so don't freak out at this point. Can you take a few days off or get a vacation and go to Canada, USA, or somewhere in Europe where you can be tested anonymously? It only takes a few days to get the results back, in some places you can get the results in one day. Like I said, keep your head on straight, take a few deep breaths and make a plan. You are going to be OK. Just keep it together and plan a way out of there, at least for a few days. If you are in the military then maybe you can have a test threw them...I don't know enough facts to really be able to direct you on how to get out of the country and to a country where you can be tested and be safe..if you are not in the military then you should not have much trouble getting out. If you are in the military then you are going to have to come up with a reason to take time away...let us know if there is anything else we can help you with. Good luck. Its going to be alright.

I'm not in military, but I can't have vocation before july... I'll make the test then... until then, i'll keep low as u said... hope to hear nothing but negative result...
btw, thanks for the flu information...

You are welcome. Good luck to you.