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daisielou

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Hooking up that turned to more?
Posted: 07-19-08 14:21pm

I met this guy, and we started hooking up with eachother right away...over time, we became good friends, and now over time, I've started to like him.
I get soooo confused, he acts like he likes me, too, but then he talks about trying to hook up with other girls, to me...including with my friends.
I know he obviously doesn't like me, but what do I do to get rid of my feelings? I'm so depressed and confused and hurt...and it sucks, I'm 24, and I am normally a hard person...I never let myself like someone who I know doesn't like me back! But for him, I can't help it! I've been in long term relationships, and even married at one point, and even then I didn't let any of those guys affect me the way that this one does.
I need to get rid of my feelings, I know that we could never go anywhere, but I just can't, and I don't know how. Sad
If any of you could give me advice! I can't talk to my friends or family, I don't want anyone knowing that I have finally let someone get to me like this!
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worrywart01

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Posted: 07-19-08 23:27pm

If I were you I would stop the hooking up thing...since you obviously have developed a friendship and you have feelings for him its really the best thing to do...it would only cause more heartache for you to continue this knowing there will never be anything more...unless you're the type that can handle a friends with benefits relationship..but I would just suggest you two stop being intimate together and you cant really make the feelings go away...you'll just have to accept the fact that things aren't going to work out the way you'd like
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Sukki

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Posted: 09-09-08 11:02am

If you know he's just with u for a hook-up and is set on hooking - up with ur friends as well, and u know u need to get rid of ur feelings, get him out of ur life the sooner the better. dont see him anymore..
about the talking perhaps u could go see a counsellor if ur in school or a psychologist - they have their own private records so none of it'll get to ur friends and family..
perhaps it will be sum help..
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