Hi. i am 14 years old and turning 15, i
have never had a girlfriend, i am short
and very shy, i can talk to girls but when
i try to ask them out i say i am going to
do it, but never end up doing it, how
should i circumvent(avoid)
this????????????? i have asked a girl out
once and she said her parents would not
let her should i go ask her parents
or.....
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EddyMc
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Posted: 06-22-08 15:08pm
Your height has nothing to do with it so
forget about that its all about
confidence, if you go over babbeling 9
times out of 10 it will be a no.
How you ask a girl out is simple you
approch her chat for a bit and then ask.
Its that simple and you have already done
it in the past so you can do it again!,
what you are doing is overthinking how you
are going to ask her the more you think
the less confident you will be, in you
mind think "she will say yes", "I'm a
great guy" thinking this to yourself will
give you a little boost in confidence
which will help with the anxiety you are
feeling, don't think about the question
just ask it, go over strike up a
conversation for a bit then ask.
Eddy
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greenr702
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Posted: 09-26-08 01:20am
it amazes me that 250+ people have looked
at this topic, but only 1 fella could lend
a helping hand
glovan...find a girly friend that you are
interested in, and think about what you
hve in common- during conversation- talk
about movies- and talk about a movie that
just came out...ask if she'd like to see
it with you 2night- look her in the eyes
when you say that. that shows that your
confident with youself, and it's a respect
thing as well.
or one of your buddies probably aready has
a g/f...so talk to him, find out if his
g/f has a friend...set up a double
date...something like that is easy these
days givin Myspace and facebook n such.
hope i was of some help to ya
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Marc209
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Posted: 10-23-08 02:46am
Theres a good chance the 'confidence' plan
may not work out. Girls at that age are
mainly concerned with looks. If you are
lacking in this department, give it 2-3
more years.
