Im going crazy..it seams like ill never
get pregnant. i have tryed for a year just
haveing unprotected sex and nothing has
happen yet..the whole chart thing..do you
really got to do that? Is their no other
natural way to become pregnant? is their
ways in bed im doing wrong..miss' is the
only thing we do now! CAn Anyone HELP me
out with this one?!?!?
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-01-08 15:02pm
Charting your temperature is "natural".
All you are doing is finding out when you
are ovulating. That way you will be able
to have "well timed" bd.
The only way to get pregnant is to have
well timed sex.
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chrissy721
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Posted: 04-01-08 15:04pm
yea, my husband and I tried for almost 2
years. I'm due April 18th, so it just
takes time.
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mominashoe
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Posted: 04-01-08 15:43pm
What you need is an ovulation predictor
kit. Follow the directions for your
optimal times. You also might try having
sex every other day or every third day to
increase the sperm count. Sperm can last
inside you up to three days as viable
sperm, so if you ovulate even three days
after you have sex, you can conceive.
Some people just have it a little harder
than others, especially if you've used
birth control before. If you have been on
birth control, it can take a year to
conceive, so since you've been trying for
a year, act like you are just starting out
if that is the case.
After sex, don't get up right away and
have your partner elevate your hips. You
can even buy a special hip elevator pillow
that is designed specifically for women
who are trying to conceive.
Until then, don't worry and lower your
stress level about it (because lower
stress will help you conceive) and just
try to enjoy trying to make the
babies...there isn't going to be much time
to do that later on with little bundles of
joy.
The very best of luck!
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dmm
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2008 Posts: 20 Location: Maryland,
Posted: 04-01-08 21:16pm
missionary is supposedly the best way.
also try laying there for 20-30 minutes
without moving. i have heard that helps.
and if at all possibly try not to stress
about it. stress totally impacts hormones
thus ovulation, implantation and periods.
the more stress you are under the more
"mini" cramps you will have making it
nearly impossible for the egg to implant.
these little mini cramps are not something
you can feel. keep having that intimacy
and just enjoy it. try not to think about
whether you are ovulating or not. just
do it to do it.
