Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a
year and a half. We do not have sexual
intercorse because he is a christian and
it is a sin. But we do play around with
each other. But when he plays with me down
there I
feel like I want to orgasm but then I feel
the need to tell him to stop like its too
much for me to handle. I really want to
orgasm but I can seem to let myself do it.
Can someone tell me if there is something
wrong with me? Or tell me something I can
do to help me? PLEASE?!!?
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Maddie34
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Posted: 03-21-08 01:35am
No it took me until having sex to actually
orgasm. However, it wasn't the sex that
made it possible.
Try masturbating. Get comfortable with
yourself firstand find out what will push
yourself over the edge. Once you figure
that out then you can show your bf.
Its a mental thing. If you aren't
comfortable with it yet then having an
orgasm is going to be hard. Nothing is
wrong with you.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 03-21-08 17:41pm
Yeah, you need to orgasm from masturbation
first, that way you know what the full
process of build-up and climax feels like.
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showcase05
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2008 Posts: 19
Posted: 03-23-08 17:17pm
my simple advice is to tell him, before
you start anything, "dont stop no matter
how much i tell you to" he may feel
bad when he doesnt listen and thinks hes
doing something wrong, but thats gonna
change after you explode. but if really
need to stop, physically stop him from
continuing (grab his hand, move it away,
etc...)
I
feel like I want to orgasm but then I feel
the need to tell him to stop like its too
much for me to handle. I really want to
orgasm but I can seem to let myself do it.
Can someone tell me if there is something
wrong with me? Or tell me something I can
do to help me? PLEASE?!!?
