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I'm Nervous... Posted: 05-26-06 16:30pm
My due date was 3/31/06 but my doctor kept
me on a prenatal visit because my legs
were swelling up due to high blood
presure.My question is i'm unsure when I
got pregnant?On these following dates,i'll
write with a question mark are the days ,
I was with my
boyfriend:5/30/05?,5/31/05?,(period6/1/05-
6/5/05),i was raped on 6/11/05 while
walking back home from work,i never
reported it or told anyone because he
kept telling me that he had been watching
me prior to the incident so I was scared
,6/13/05?,6/14/05?6/19/05?,i was bleeding
from 6/25/05-6/27/05
?,6/28/05?,6/29/05?,7/2/05?,7/3/05?,7/8/05
?,7/9/05?,7/18/05?7/19/05?,7/20/05?,7/21/0
5?,7/22/05?,7/23/05?,7/24/05?,7/25/05?,
7/30/05?,7/31/05?----i just told
my botfriend of the rape because he
claimed he thought the baby didn't look
like him.......How long does a man's sperm
stay in you to get you pregnant? I am
willing to raise the baby girl regardless
but i'm not sure if my boyfriend is strong
enough to stand by me knowing that she
might not be his. I can't afford to pay
for the paternity test at the lab,so we
filed for a paternity test through the
court system and the state pays for it
,but if the test come back positive--he's
just repays the money back to the
court.I'm also scared if the results come
back neg. Do they try and find the person
who raped me...I mean does he have any
right to have any rights to her.I've grown
to love her and I don't want him around
her if he is the father......Please help
... :cry: :( :( :(
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AWDracer
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Joined: 02 Jun 2006 Posts: 50 Location: Canada
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Posted: 06-06-06 01:04am
Hey.. I'm really sorry for the late
response. I hope you're still reading
this.
I'm really sorry about what happened to
you. If you don't file a report that you
got raped officially with the police,
there's nothing that the court can do
about your case. The person who raped you
was counting on the fact that you would
say nothing and destroy the evidence (by
showering). If you're unsure, there's not
much point in trying to raise a child.
Raising a child is hard work and requires
lots of money, and if money isn't your
best friend, I highly suggest (but not
pressure you) for an abortion. It wasn't
like you were uncareful about sex; you
were raped and you should decide for
yourself whether risking yourself and the
baby to raise the baby is worth taking,
and not be bound by "moral issues". No
matter what decision you make right now,
you won't be morally incorrect, in my
opinion.
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