Brunett_babe92
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i'm pregnant
Posted: 06-27-08 23:33pm
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okay so i have this wonderful boyfriend
and were really happy together and yes i'm
15 and he's 18 but thats not the problem
we wanted something more from our
relationship so we decided we wanted a
baby after the first time when it
accidently happened and i had a
miscarriage . so anyways this is the first
time i've been pregnant so i really don't
know what i can and cant eat or do while
I'm pregnant so if anyone could help i
would really appreciate it. 
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 06-27-08 23:38pm
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Wait, you've had a miscarriage but this is
the first time you've been pregnant? That
doesn't really make sense. This should be
your second pregnancy if you've been
pregnant before.
Don't:
Drink alcohol
Smoke
Do drugs
Take medication without checking with a
doctor that it's okay
Do:
Take prenatal vitamins
Get your pregnancy confirmed by a doctor
or a testing center
Establish an OB/GYN for prenatal care
Eat a balanced diet
And you might want to talk to your parents
if you're still living at home. They
deserve to know that their young daughter
planned a pregnancy under their roof.
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lele25
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Posted: 06-28-08 00:00am
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So you got pregnant on purpose????  And
did I read right, your only 15??? If all
of this is true....all I have to say (for
now) is wow!!! I'm sure you parents are
super proud!!!
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Mabel
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Posted: 06-28-08 11:10am
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How far along are you? Have you been to
the doctor? When are you due? Do your
parents know? Will you continue school?
Where will you live? How will you support
this baby?
What about HEALTH insurance? Going to the
doctor every month during pregnancy and
delivering a baby is really expensive -
you need to check with your parents if you
are covered under their plan or if you'll
need to seek out some medical help.
I'm going to assume your parents do not
know or you wouldn't have such a cavelier
attitude about how you two wanted to have
a baby. Do not assume they will be
pleased. In fact, they are going to be
pretty angry about it. Your boyfriend is
old enough for charges of statutory rape
to be put against him also - so you two
may wish to be prepared for that.
And welcome to motherhood. I've been a mom
for 22 years (since I was 16) and you've
just stepped onto a path I wouldn't wish
on my worst enemy. Good luck!
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 06-28-08 12:34pm
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^ I think you said it ALL right there!
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 06-28-08 12:36pm
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Also to the OP, My sister is your
age...and I know she is NO WHERE near
ready for a baby. You are going to miss
out on SO MUCH in you life... because now
you HAVE to grow up, NOTHING is about you
anymore. Im sorry you did what you did. I
feel bad for you.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 06-28-08 14:30pm
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I was your age when i got pregnant. Good
luck to you, you haveno ideawhat you've
let yourself in for
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Amethyst_Butterfly
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Posted: 06-28-08 17:58pm
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how long have you known this guy? Are you
aware your body isn't ready for a baby?
You could get pregnant again and once
again miscarry. You should consider a
puppy.
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pregmumof2
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Posted: 06-29-08 18:04pm
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AGAIN i completely agree with Ingi? how
irrisposible of you?? there are woman out
there who would give anything to have a
baby and theres you going about it so
carelessly.you havn't stepped aside and
even considered looking at the bigger
picture.the first words my head is
screaming out to say is "how dare you" be
so careless and inconsiderate to firstly
that poor baby,secondly your parents and
thirdly yourself.You are going to need
some serious help girl.
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Stollhofen
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Posted: 07-07-08 12:06pm
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Firstly, congratulations on your
pregnancy. This is apparently something
that you and your boyfriend really wanted,
so you must be very happy with each other.
And although this path of teen pregnancy
will be hard, as many previous teen
mothers can tell you, know that there are
many websites and groups to support you.
You are not alone in this.
The first step, as AyaMiyaki mentioned, is
to ensure healthy choices for you and the
baby. She provided some great examples.
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socialoutcast
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Posted: 07-09-08 05:28am
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Planned pregnancy or not. Congrats girly!
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