In love with my employee... Posted: 04-16-08 23:59pm
Dear friends,
I'm married with husband whom can provide
me car, driver, maid, house that I wanted.
I have 1 son. My husband is handsome
physically. But he is those type of rude,
talk without think using his brain, in the
first few years of our marriage He hurts
me deeply with his words and action.... He
had abuse me verbally & physically.
He is simply those low educated people
with mouth swearing, yelling at maid and
people as he likes....
So I have lost all my "real love" for him,
and now is only u know life is like
responsibility, maintain good family name
in neighborhood, I live in Singapore so it
is small world... Both our families sort
of must keep up good family name..there is
NO DIVORCE history in our family...
Time flies, I have this employee, he had
been worked in our office for 8 months but
I NEVER NOTICED him, Until he were moved
to my department, I become sort of really
like him, infatuated with him...why ?
He is poorer & 12 years younger than me oh
god.... he is just good looking, heart
and mind were not those of metropolitan
type & not corrupted...and i am his
boss....
Anyway I'm really confused, i cant finish
this anymore...I wish someone wisely
advise me what should I do...
with love,
J
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ladyT02
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Posted: 04-17-08 23:59pm
i am not married but sometimes its better
to think about yourself and what you want
for your sons future. your husband is
providing a good material life but not an
emotional or physical one and those are
more important. if you have your own
buisness you can provide for you and your
son, enjoy a good calm happy life until
you find someone that is humble,
loving,and loves you trully. who cares
what other people think! you dont owe
anybody anything...its your life.
maybe you are attracted to him because he
works hard, is caring,polite,humble he
doesnt think he is better than anyone
else. those are some great qualities your husband is
rich and doesnt know how it feels to work
hard, to be humble and help others. no one
can tell you if you should leave your
husband or not...that desicion is yours.
but remember its all about you and your
sons happiness
your husband is
rich and doesnt know how it feels to work
hard, to be humble and help others. no one
can tell you if you should leave your
husband or not...that desicion is yours.
but remember its all about you and your
sons happiness 