In need of a woman's perspective.... Posted: 07-21-08 01:48am
My roommates girlfriend's roommate is who
I like. The thing is my roommates
girlfriend which is also like a very good
friend of mine tells me that her roommate
kinda likes me. Then the roommate Jessica,
the one I like, tells me she likes me but
not in that way. So I ask her what she
likes in a guy and she says she likes a
man who is athletic, smarter than her,
funny, taller than her, and handsome. The
thing is I am athletic, i am just as smart
as her (we both have a 4.0 gpa), i am
taller than her, and funny...i cant be the
judge as to if I am handsome enough in her
standards, but I am pretty much everything
she listed off. And from time to time, it
seems like we flirt with each other.
So my question is do I try to ask her out
even though she has turned me down once?
Or do I go on? But there is just one
little problem, I sometimes cant stop
thinking about her. To me it seems like
she wants to but I dont know? What should
I do?
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worriedauzzi
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Posted: 07-21-08 02:12am
People want most what they can't have, I
know it sounds stupid and childish but
truth be told lots of girls are like that.
It sounds like you are a perfect candidate
but because you have already tried to get
her without having much of a chase she
knows that she can get you ... which takes
the fun out of it. It sounds like she does
like you a bit to be flirting with you but
also atm it sounds like she just wants you
to want her. So my advise is to act like
you don't want her, don't be rude or throw
things at her, but just when she flirts
with you maybe give her a flirty look to
lead her on and then don't do anything
else. There are two types of girls ... the
ones that well not that they are players
but just know who they can get and like
keeping men on their toes, and then the
rest of the women. The way to get a girl
like her is to seem un interested which
will make her want you to want her and
then when she thinks you don't want her
try hitting on her again. You will
probably dismiss this but I have seen it
happen lots, and honestly I rather go for
a guy thats harder to get, we like
challenges.
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