Is this relationship normal ? Posted: 03-11-08 09:05am
I know I am in a crazy relationship but is
it abusive am I the problem or am I
"phsyco" like my boyfriend says? Me and
my man have been together for 4 years the
first 2 on and off, and the past 2
straight with a lot of 2 day break ups.
Begining of our relationship I wasnt into
him, now I am dedicated in every way to
him laundry,cook,buy him things,clean,stay
home and dont go out for him everything.
He knows hes got me, when he messes with
me and breaks up with me I go crazy
sometmes crying hysterical, because the
break up will be because hes accusing me
of cheating like yestrerday accused me of
cheathing and I did nothing of the sort
impossible. He dragged this on for the
whole day texting me I was a wh**e, get
out of his life, then called me at night
time and said do you want to go get
something to eat? I said but we just
fought what happened whats going on/then
hell hang up on me, saying just drop it,
see this is why I cant be with you your
crazy just drop it. So of course I go
back to him and pick him up to go eat and
I mention the fight and he says Im going
home I dont want to talk about it, wer
done its over. What is the problem am I
crazy or is he. BTW THIS HAPPENS A LOT!!!!
it happened 4 days ago he broke up with me
for a few hours asked for his stuff back
then said he didnt want it back and then
called 2 hours later saying....I want this
relationship to work I love you. WHAT IS
GOING ON!
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Beline
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Posted: 04-21-08 08:16am
First of all you need to ask yourself why
you are in this relationship. A
relationship is a two way street. You HAVE
to give, and you HAVE to receive, and it
seems that you are the only one giving.
Your boyfriend is a very unstable man.
This whole emotional rollercoaster that he
is putting you on is going to drive you
insane. You deserve a man who will love
and appreciate a loving caring person like
yourself.
Think about it for a second: do you want
to continue with this very abusive
relationship, or do you want to be with
someone who can’t wait to make you his
bride?
Break it off. You deserve much better.
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