To vent..OK I have been livin with my mom
and stepdad for 2 months. Well now my step
sister has moved in.. and they act as if
she is different from me. She has two
kids.. and now she is thinkin she is
pregnant again.. she has not had her
period and is like 3 or four days late.
Her and her husband are living with our
parents and neither one of them are
working. HEr lazy as husband won't get up
and work.. and she is trying to get him to
join the army.. that is what she is hoping
for and I think the only reason she
married him.. he won't get up and help her
do anything around the house or most of
the time with the baby and when he does he
health forum.. They walk in my room with
out knocking.. I feel as if she is trying
to take all my spotlight.. it is my first
baby.. and I was supposed to be having a
wedding shower.. but.. I am supposed to
put mine off so that she can have hers. I
am really not happy bout it.. maybe I am
just being selfish.. but.. it was my turn
to have a little spotlight.. My parents
were actually being nice.. for the first
time in a year. We were actually getting
along.. and I was having time with my mom
to myself for the first time in 17 years..
I was not having to share her with no
one.. and now.. I have to.. maybe I am
being selfish...but .. with neither of
them working how do they expect to take
care of a third child.. when... her mother
is taking care of her oldest? I don't
know.. I just guess.. I am jealous.
|
killbill
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jan 2008 Posts: 400
Thanks: 33
Thanked:32
Posted: 03-19-08 16:56pm
you're going to be a mother, it's time to
grow up. you can't keep being the baby
when you're about to have one.
|
Ingi
Moderator
Joined: 09 Mar 2006 Posts: 8789 Location: Grinning like a Cheshire Cat,
Thanks: 162
Thanked:195
Posted: 03-19-08 17:25pm
You were getting a wedding shower? I
didn't think you were with your bf
anymore...
Why one earth would you be jealous of your
sister? She has no job, her bf/fiancee (?)
has no job, they live with your parents
and may be having another child. That is
no life to be jealous of, if anything it
should be a beacon of what not to do!
|
Lilly Ivy
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Aug 2007 Posts: 1548 Location: Newell, WV
Thanks: 51
Thanked:85
online
Posted: 03-19-08 17:44pm
Isn't venting fun?!? I kinda know how you
feel about worthless people... my sister
and her boyfriend were living with my mom,
and it was just horrible.
I'd be mad too if I had plans and my MOM
changed them to accommodate my sister.
That's playing favorites IMO.
Thanks for venting, that's what we're here
for!
|
Ilovejulietannafaye
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jan 2008 Posts: 234 Location: ,
Thanks: 0
Thanked:2
Posted: 03-19-08 23:27pm
[quote="Ingi"]You were getting a wedding
shower? I didn't think you were with your
bf anymore...
quote]
My childs father and I are getting
married.. I posted about it all the other
day.
Isn't venting fun?!? I kinda
know how you feel about worthless
people... my sister and her boyfriend were
living with my mom, and it was just
horrible.
I'd be mad too if I had plans and my MOM
changed them to accommodate my sister.
That's playing favorites IMO.
Thanks for venting, that's what we're here
for!
I soooo agree!
|
Ingi
Moderator
Joined: 09 Mar 2006 Posts: 8789 Location: Grinning like a Cheshire Cat,
Thanks: 162
Thanked:195
Posted: 03-20-08 08:21am
[quote="Ilovejulietannafaye"]
Ingi
wrote:
You were getting a wedding
shower? I didn't think you were with your
bf anymore...
quote]
My childs father and I are getting
married.. I posted about it all the other
day.
Congrats, I must have missed that.
|
Willa Weintraub
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Mar 2007 Posts: 3399 Location: The Beach!
I hope things get better. There really
isn't much you can do. . .
|
tiamccoy819
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Oct 2007 Posts: 585 Location: Elkton, Maryland,
Thanks: 5
Thanked:0
Posted: 03-20-08 21:38pm
I can say I know how you feel but just
like I have gotten used to it over the
years...you should already be used to it
also. Im not saying its fair because its
not, but life isnt always fair and like
"killbill" said you are going to have a
kid yourself so all you can do is forget
about it becuase it only makes you
stronger, and a better mother becuase you
wont treat your children different becuase
you know how it feels when your parents
play favorites.
