Joined: 27 Jul 2007 Posts: 71 Location: New York, United States
Lady or Tramp Posted: 03-24-08 16:03pm
Ok basically, from you guys, I want to
know how can you tell if a girl is someone
you can take home to mother or just a
"tramp" (to be polite) What qualites does
the girl have to have to be considered the
one you would take home to meet mom.
And another thing is I would like some
adivce/thoughts on this situation: Me and
my current boyfriend have known each other
since we were about 11-12 years old. Hes
been asking me out since we were in about
6th or 7th grade and I havent given him
the chance until now (11th grade) We've
been going together for 3 months now and
we only had sex 2 times. The first time
was when he took my virginity. One day we
were talking about sex and he said to me
(after I insinuated wanting to be intimate
again) that there comes a time in every
mans life when he realizes that sex isnt
everything and he learns to cool out a
bit. And for him this is that time. Also
how does a male feel when he takes a girls
virginity?
He's 17 yrs old - is that normal for him
to say?
And since hes been trying since we were
children, would I be considerd a Lady (one
he can take home to mom) and would his
feeling be genuine for me since he knows
my family etc (he also always talks about
us in the future like when we're older we
can do this or that or when we have
children together . . . and other things)
If you have any questions just ask. I hope
I was clear enough in my post - I just
want to hear some thoughts! Thanks
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MikeH90
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Re: Lady or Tramp Posted: 03-25-08 11:21am
Larlen
wrote:
Ok basically, from you guys,
I want to know how can you tell if a girl
is someone you can take home to mother or
just a "tramp" (to be polite) What
qualites does the girl have to have to be
considered the one you would take home to
meet mom.
And another thing is I would like some
adivce/thoughts on this situation: Me and
my current boyfriend have known each other
since we were about 11-12 years old. Hes
been asking me out since we were in about
6th or 7th grade and I havent given him
the chance until now (11th grade) We've
been going together for 3 months now and
we only had sex 2 times. The first time
was when he took my virginity. One day we
were talking about sex and he said to me
(after I insinuated wanting to be intimate
again) that there comes a time in every
mans life when he realizes that sex isnt
everything and he learns to cool out a
bit. And for him this is that time. Also
how does a male feel when he takes a girls
virginity?
He's 17 yrs old - is that normal for him
to say?
And since hes been trying since we were
children, would I be considerd a Lady (one
he can take home to mom) and would his
feeling be genuine for me since he knows
my family etc (he also always talks about
us in the future like when we're older we
can do this or that or when we have
children together . . . and other things)
If you have any questions just ask. I hope
I was clear enough in my post - I just
want to hear some thoughts!
Thanks
This should be in the relationship forum.
Anyway - my thoughts. This guy took your
virginity and now is saying that sex isn't
everything, and he's 17. When I was 17 I
was always trying to get sex. I think
maybe that he isn't be honest with you and
that he got what he was after and now he
isn't interested. But on the other hand
he talks about the future with you and
kids. Maybe the sex you had wasn't that
good so he's pushing it off. I just can't
picture a 17 yr old guy not wanting sex
with his GF.
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Larlen
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2007 Posts: 71 Location: New York, United States
Posted: 03-25-08 16:14pm
Ok I posted it here because I wanted
advice from men on how they judge a girl
concluding that she is pleasant and can be
taken home to meet their mother.
And maybe I should have added that we live
a good distance apart from each other and
we go to different schools. We see each
other 2 times a week and the only time we
are intamate is when we cut school (when
both parents go to work)
He told me that he likes sex with me and I
even made a comment about me not knowing
what to do and he said no I was pretty
good I made him orgasim two times. I also
said something about not feeling that I
was sexy and he told me he couldnt
understand why I thought that.
Hes a very straight forward person so if
he wanted to break up I would definately
know.
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Rosie H
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Posted: 03-25-08 16:30pm
I dont think you should worry too much
about what others think. Do you feel
dirty? Do feel like a tramp? If you do not
and he doesnt think you are this way then
you most definatley are take home
material.
To me a tramp would be someoen who sleeps
with the entire neighborhood with
absolutly no feelings for themselves or
others. Now I am a female and every person
think different but I dont think you sound
like this type of person. This is a man
you have known for a very long time and
sex is healthy. You sound smart and very
knowledgable and he seems to respect you
so thats what nmatters most.
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exodia69
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Mar 2008 Posts: 33
Posted: 03-26-08 12:20pm
virginity is just a state of mind, its as
made up as the tooth fairy, virginity is a
vague word, and im about to blow my coop
on it and tell people to stop being so
ignorant at work giving me a hard time
cause im a "virgin"... im just going to
stand up one day and say "im not a virgin"
then my co-workers will laugh and say
"whys that?" my reply... "cause i said
so."
