Joined: 26 Mar 2008 Posts: 18 Location: Salinas, Ca US
Loneliness and single Posted: 03-28-08 23:15pm
Every flaw a man can have to find
themselve unappealing to the opposite sex
I have you name it I got it. My last
girlfriend tore me to shreds listing
everything wrong I had and now I cant help
to focus on that. Now I feel I make
everyone around me uneasy. I dont think I
am ever going to find someone to love me
for me and not my friends or family. I
also cant seem to be ok being by myself I
see other people live just fine by
themselves. I get angry at myself for not
being ok alone. I cant seem to be with
another person. I feel my soul purpose of
being a man with penis is to procreate and
I cant even do a simple like that. Not
because I cant but cause I cant find any
one willing to spend time with me. I feel
my time on earth is worthless.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 03-29-08 00:08am
You can't possibly have every flaw a man
could possibly have.
But I know how rough it is for someone to
put all your flaws out in front of you. It
seems like the list is endless and that
there couldn't possibly be any left that
is a positive thing.
Trust me hun, you may have flaws, but
you've got positive qualities too. Are any
of these flaws something you can make a
conscious effort to improve?
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ladyT02
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Posted: 03-29-08 00:42am
so you think that the only reason your on
earth is to just procreate??? sorry if
that didnt sit to well wit me hun it kinda
sounded too macho. men arent here JUST for
that...their protecters,givers,supporters,
etc. too. then you said that you want
someone to love just you and not be cool
with your friends or family? when someone
is in a real relationship you dont have to
LOVE their friends or family but at least
be cool and respect them you kno
your 23 rite? you still have a long way to
go. im 24 and im barely in my very first
ever long term relationship. im not here
on earth just to procreate, i can remember
when i used to be so bummbed and scared
that i would be alone for the rest of my
life. but during that time that you are
you can do so much imporvement not because
of the flaws your ex listed but because
its self-empowering for you...believe me i
did it. confidense begins to show and
woman...the good woman will see it. the
type of woman that wants to be with you,
yet give you your space, the one that'll
make you dinner, who respects your family
and friends, wont get jealous if you kick
it with your friends...the one you kno
:)everyone has flaws...everyone. she had
flaws, she probably went and listed yours
because she saw that in herself and was
way to scared to face her own.
but dont worry, dont focus on your flaws
cause everyone has em. you wont be alone
for the rest of your life, just let that
love come to you
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from_the_ashes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 May 2008 Posts: 2 Location: , OK US
Posted: 05-07-08 01:11am
Keep in mind that people say things when
they're mad that they don't necessarily
mean.
It's also very easy to do that to your
ex.
Just keep doing what you're doing,
regardless of your ex has said.
If you bagged her, chances are you'll find
another.
Sounds like they way she handled your
situation you can only go up from her.
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