I am really scared because about a week
ago, i lost my virginity but it only
lasted about ten seconds because we had no
protection. But now I am getting paranoid
because I am only fourteen and even though
he said that he did not ejaculate- I think
thats how you spell it, I am still
worried... just in case.
i no I am stupid to do it without
protection, but i do not know what to do?
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 03-25-08 11:10am
At this point, there is really nothing you
can do except for wait it out and see if
you are. Even though he did not
ejaculate, all boys produce a substance
called precum. This can contain sperm
that can get you pregnant, and a guy has
no control over when he has precum and
usually cannot feel it and tell.
If you are ever stuck in this situation
again, there is a pill called Plan B that
you can take. You have to be 18 or older
to get it from a pharmacy, so you would
have to talk to a trusted friend/adult of
that age. However, if you have a planned
parenthood near you that you could get to,
they will give out Plan B without you
having to be 18. If taken within 72
hours, it'll help to prevent unwanted
pregnancy more.
I would wait until your missed period, or
until 14 days from when you had sex and
take a pregnancy test. Do not worry; if
you are pregnant there are many options
(abortion, adoption, and keeping the
baby), so if you are not ready for a baby
yet you can still work something out.
I know it is scary, but there is not much
else you can do except for wait and learn
from this experience and get some condoms
next time (or if you are planning on
regularly having sex, think about going on
birth control. Planned parenthood will do
this without parental consent, or if you
are worried about telling your parents you
could always say you want to go on birth
control because you have really bad
periods and it helps regulate them or you
want it to control acne or something).
