I'm 16....and me and my boyfriend had
unprotected sex on the 29th of May and we
used the pull out method, my period had
gotten established and it was always or
close to the 17th or the 18th varied
sometimes. In May it was on the 17th. Well
next month which was June I had my period
on the 10th. 7 days early and it lasted
only 3 days and was slightly heavy but
turned super light after a day If I
remeber and now I'm getting head aces,
dizzy, nausea, I had some pain in my lower
abdomen and have been feeling tired more
now. My boyfriend and me are freakin out
because we don't know what to do.
I have been under stress all my life due
to how my family was and things are
finally better and I was feeling a lot
better and healthier and never when I was
under stress would my period last 3
days...
...a while later...
I took a few tests all negative (I
think)and two of them looked like they
could be faint positives but I took
another and it said negative (way
negative) so I think 'ok, not pregnant.
yay!' but after a while I noticed that my
areola's seem slightly darker than before,
more head aces, tired more often, still
getting dizzy, my joints hurt every so
often now (never has happened before) T T,
my nausea is getting a whole lot worst,
for a few days I have been sensitive to
smells I guess...I was at a fair yesterday
and felt sick every time I got to close to
a stand that had food especially sweet and
greasy food and today when I opened the
fridge and I couldn't eat because I felt
sick from the smell of all the food and
also today I noticed that my boyfriend
smelled sweet, I never noticed that before
o.o (I usually can't smell that well) my
period got even shorter now 2 days long,
started on the 8th this time and there are
twinges in my lower abdomen, I've been
very thirsty lately and funny thing is I'm
more gassy like I am when I'm on my
period.... .///., later today my boyfriend
and I made a list of things I have been
feeling lately. well at least we aren't
freaking out about the whole thing just
worried.
My boyfriend wants me to take another test
to be sure or go to a planned parenthood
center which is pretty far and we need a
friend to get to it, so it requires a lot
of careful planning. What do people on the
forum recommend. Please any advice is
great. n n thank you very much.
Never been pregnant and didn't know about
a lot of these things till after I looked
them up because I had them.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 07-14-08 20:11pm
If you've been having consistant bleeding
around the time you are supposed to be
having your period then I would say you're
not pregnant, especially when you said it
was bleeding.
But if you're not worried then you should
test. With all these symptoms you'll be
able to get a positive on a hpt, if you
still get a negative then these symptoms
may have nothing to do wit pregnancy. I
think you may want to go to planned
parenthood so you could get a blood test
and then have absolutely no issue as to
whether you are pregnant or not--- AND ask
about birth control.
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Lilly Ivy
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Posted: 07-14-08 20:14pm
Spend a few extra dollars and get a
digital pregnancy test. They said
"Pregnant" or "Not Pregnant", no guessing
whether the line was dark or not.
A lot of pregnancy symptoms are way too
similar to PMS, so a pregnancy test is the
only way to know. But unfortunately,
sensitivity to smell (especially if you
like the smell of coffee and it suddenly
turns you away) is most of the time
associated with being pregnant (at least
with 99% of my friends, myself included)
Please look into birth control. It's a
simple solution to these types of worries,
and they regulate your period as well.
A little tip, start writing down your
periods... When they start, how many days
between start and start (which is your
cycle length), and how long they are.
Good Luck!
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worrywart01
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Posted: 07-14-08 20:54pm
i agree with everyone else...if youre
still concerned test once more and most
definitely either start using condoms or
go on birth control..its irresponsible to
use the "pull out method" and chances are
it will eventually lead to an unwanted
pregnancy
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Ingi
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Posted: 07-14-08 21:26pm
Go to planned parenthood, its free. Plus,
they have the added benefit of giving out
birth control too. That way, you won't
have to fear the next time you have sex.
The pull out method IS NOT birth control.
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Likou
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Posted: 07-24-08 15:05pm
thank you for everyones advice. I'm sorta
convinced that I must have some sorta
disease or I'm really sick. my mother had
me go to the doctor and I had a blood test
done but I don't know the results yet. my
belly is sorta puffy now, like I have a
bump and my boyfriend is convinced that
i'm pregnant but I think i'm just sick.
can't wait for what the blood test says.
Now I know the pull out method is a bad
idea...heh XD
I'm gonna be going to planned parenthood
tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure yet.
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stephaniely
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Posted: 07-25-08 20:27pm
good luck =)
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Likou
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Posted: 07-26-08 06:04am
my pants don't fit anymore...the doctor
said that everything looks fine and to go
to planned parenthood. I haven't gained a
single pound in fact I have lost weight
but my pants don't fit.
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soccerstar0114
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Posted: 07-29-08 21:06pm
Likou
wrote:
thank you for everyones
advice. I'm sorta convinced that I must
have some sorta disease or I'm really
sick. my mother had me go to the doctor
and I had a blood test done but I don't
know the results yet. my belly is sorta
puffy now, like I have a bump and my
boyfriend is convinced that i'm pregnant
but I think i'm just sick. can't wait for
what the blood test says.
Now I know the pull out method is a bad
idea...heh XD
I'm gonna be going to planned parenthood
tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure
yet.
I know exactly what you mean. I'm sitting
here trying to convince myself that I have
the flu or my period is just going to come
later than usual and my boyfriends
completely convinced that I'm pregnant.
But yeah, don't beat yourself up about the
pull out thing because so many people do
it even though they shouldn't. Just, if
you end up not being pregnant birth
control would be a good idea because the
anxiety of a pregnancy scare is killer.
good luckk
