honourable
sir/madam
im lohith age-20 from india . sir im an
engineering student doing my final year .
i an average student at studies i stand
amoung top 20students in my class having
104 students . im able to write exams and
get good marks in college but at home i
have a problem ...
few days back my father bought some money
and asked me to count .
problem is i was unable to count it
properly ..... there was a mistake when my
father counted . (but second time i
counted i was right)
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.
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in 1 month he used to give me the business
money and asked me to count ... i was and
counting wrong in 1:3 ratio . i.e if i
count three times one time its going wrong
..
but my younger brother counts it correct
.... i feel tough to do it y?
even today he gave 500rs notes 50 and i
said the bundle had 50,000rs but actually
500*50 is 25000 . i realized it after he
counted the amount ............ im really
ashamed of this incident , my brother
laugh at me .... im smart doing
engineering maths but why am i feeling
this situation hard .. please please help
am i mentally affected please help
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Besatine
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Reply Posted: 08-10-08 19:50pm
Hello,
Please do not feel ashamed of any
incidents where you have made mistakes.
Without knowing you well, I can only guess
what is happening, but I believe that you
are just becoming nervous. I suspect that
you feel insecure when it takes you too
long to count. Every single person in this
world thinks at a different rate. Some
people think very quickly, while others
need a long time to get to the same place
(and there are many in between). Neither
way is right or wrong, it is just how it
is. I know that I sometimes feel pressured
to do math quickly, but that only makes me
go slower because I have trouble focusing.
Take the time that you need to succeed,
and you will succeed 3:3! Do not let
others get to you by laughter or asking
you to go faster. There are many others
like you, and it is proven through studies
that stress and time limits affect a
person's performance badly. I wish you the
best of luck. You can definitely do it!
Peace be with you always.
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lookforlohith
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Posted: 08-11-08 02:02am
sir/madam
so you say there is no abnormality in
me.... thankyou thankyou thankyou verymuch
, i have lost all my confidence due to
this even now in feeling uncomfortable are
there any methods to improve thinking
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Besatine
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Reply Posted: 08-11-08 07:10am
Hello again,
I cannot say whether or not you have a
math learning disability. If you do have a
learning disability (LD), there is still
nothing wrong with you. An LD is diagnosed
when a person scores outside of the
standards. There must be some sort of
standards for students to allow the
teachers to reach the most number of
students at one time. LD students will
receive the help that they need to perform
at the proper level. Like I said before,
there is a range of ability in people.
Whether you fall in the middle, slightly
above average, or slightly below average,
does not really matter because you are who
you are. Human beings by nature are
different, and as a pre-service teacher, I
would never expect my students to perform,
think, or do anything exactly the same.
Please do not think that I am diagnosing
you with an LD. I am just explaining it
more. I cannot lean one way or another
because that would be judging unjustly
because of lack of information and
knowledge.
How are you doing the math? Are you
counting bills in your hand, doing mental
math, and/or working out problems on
paper? The best way to improve your skills
is to practice. Make math problems for
yourself and solve them. This may sound
elementary, but you can use flashcards. If
you want to succeed, you must work hard.
Here is a tip with math. Make the problems
easier for you to solve. Let us take the
example you used. 500 times 50=25,000.
Take off all of the zeros (3). Multiply 5
times 5 (25). Then, add on the zeros that
you took off (25,000). Another example is
45 times 30=1,350. If I had to do this in
my head, here is how I would do it. 45
times 3 . . . 45 plus 45=90 . . . 100 plus
45=145 . . . take away 10=135 (I rounded
90 to 100 to make it easier.) . . . add on
the zero I had removed=1,350.
That is just one way to do it. It may make
things easier for some, and it may make
things more difficult for others. Try to
find methods that help you. There are
many, many different methods that you
probably did not learn in school. If
mental math is really hard for you, write
down the problem and solve it that way.
There is no shame of doing that, if that
is what you need to do to succeed. I
suggest that you still practice mental
math, though. I hope this is somewhat
helpful. Peace to you.
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Besatine
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Reply Posted: 08-11-08 07:24am
Hello,
I just wanted to add that you can do
anything, if you put your mind to it. You
may never be a great mathematician, but
how many can we have anyway? Math is not
meant to be your strongest aspect, but you
have other areas where you are strong.
Everyone has a place in this world, and we
are all different. That is why we all have
different strengths and weaknesses. You
will be just fine. If you find yourself
not getting better at math, do not get
discouraged. You do not need to be
excellent at everything. You just need to
be able to give to the world what you have
and perform the job for which you are on
Earth. Good luck! Peace to you.
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lookforlohith
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Posted: 08-11-08 11:48am
thanking you once again sir
actually i dont think i have ld ....... i
know 5*5=25 but i dint think , i am not
adjusting to new situations ....... i
counted 5 bundles of 100 rs each bundle
had had 50 cards.............100*5=5000
and wen i was given 500 rs bundle suddenly
i counted 50 cards and with out
calculating or thinking i replied it is
50000 withg out thinking even a
moment...............just keeping in the
mind that 50 cards of 100rs gave me 5000 ,
50 cards of 500 gave 50000 i mean .. i
dont know y i answered , i made a quick
answer with out thinking it once
again.............
i become too confident and reply with out
thinking very quickly .. which yields
wrong results
how to overcome it ? please help
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NightStar
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Posted: 08-11-08 12:41pm
I have trouble focusing and I am ADD/ADHD
when I work I talk to my doctor about
taking medication to help me focus better.
Maybe you can talk to a doctor and see if
you could take something to make you focus
better on your work.
Good luck with this matter,
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Besatine
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Reply Posted: 08-11-08 12:44pm
Hello again,
The only other advice that I can offer you
is to take your time. When you want to
answer on impulse, say to yourself, "Wait.
Think about it first." Go your own pace.
There is not much else I can say to help.
Peace.