to answer your question, the egg can get
fertalized for about 24 hours and the
sperm can live in you for a few days, so
it is possible to have sex on monday and
get pregnant on a wednesday.
i really hope that if you are not pregnant
that you sit back and look at this
situation. being a good parent means that
you put your child first and that includes
waiting until you are physically,
emotionally and financially able to
support your child as best as you can.
every girl wants to have a baby at your
age, but you need to look at the reasons
objectivly. are you lonely? do you crave
love? do you want attention? what makes
you desire this commitment? please know
that a baby will always take more than
they can give. a baby cannot make you a
better person, but you can do that for
your baby. a baby cannot make you smarter,
healthier, happier, etc... you do these
things yourself, a baby may just make you
want them more, but it is up to you. a
baby that is a tool in its mothers life to
serve her happiness will not be a happy
baby.
best of luck
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Preggo07
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jul 2007 Posts: 20 Location: , CA USA
Posted: 03-23-08 22:49pm
Thanks a lot and just some news, I bought
the pregnancy test myself and with my own
money. It came out negative. Im actually
pretty happy about it because I am
partying more now and I can go out more
and enjoy life without having to worry
about a baby....thanks =]
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Ingi
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Joined: 09 Mar 2006 Posts: 8723 Location: Grinning like a Cheshire Cat,
Thanks: 156
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Posted: 03-24-08 10:17am
Preggo07
wrote:
Thanks a lot and just some
news, I bought the pregnancy test myself
and with my own money. It came out
negative. Im actually pretty happy about
it because I am partying more now and I
can go out more and enjoy life without
having to worry about a baby....thanks
=]
This is such a great realization, Preggo!
So much life to live without worrying
about bottles and diapers and laundry and
all that. Put it off until later - live
first.
