so, i've been in a relationship with this
guy for the past year and a half. he has a
temper and he blows everything out of
proportion and when he does.. it makes me
completly lash out. i turn into this angry
person that i don't like.. AND THEN he
treats me great. he's only romantic when i
am being a bytch.. but, that is not how i
want to be. when i am being a good
person.. the person that i want to be, i
get no respect. i am miserable because of
it. what do i do in this situation? is it
something that can be worked on or do i
call it quits? i'm deeply depressed.
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nightangel73
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Posted: 05-06-08 19:08pm
Call it quits!! My mother in law had a man
like that, they lived in miserable
marriage for 20 years, lost her retirement
money on lawyers and ultimatetly waisted
her life with him. Pretty sad. So better
calling it quits from the begining before
you suffer for the long haul.
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orthogirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Sep 2006 Posts: 69 Location: NC
Posted: 05-06-08 23:46pm
thank you so much for the advice!!! i left
him today and i'm not looking back. it
really does hurt, though..
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Willa Weintraub
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Re: miserable in love Posted: 05-09-08 09:16am
orthogirl
wrote:
i am miserable because of
it. what do i do in this situation?
Read everything you wrote before you asked
this question and there is your answer.
'Miserable' and 'in love' do NOT belong in
the same sentence.
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Fairy*Godmother
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Hi Sweetie! Me Fairy*Godmother Posted: 05-09-08 09:44am
Life is too short......you've wasted a
year and a half.........get out there
girlfriend and find true
happiness...............what are you
waiting for? Don't sit around and let life
pass you by......can't get time
back.......You have to make yourself
happy, we can't rely on anyone else for
this.....and once you are happy, you will
be happy in a relationship! HUGS!
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Rosie H
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Posted: 05-09-08 09:49am
I think you made the right choice. Its
gonna hurt in the beginning but time will
heal your heart. You spent a year 1/2 of
your life with him, of course you are
going to miss all the good fun times you
had. But when you start to become lonely
or miss him just think of how bad he made
you feel. In no time you will be out there
again.
There are great guys out there that will
love you for the real you!
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 05-09-08 10:52am
Good job leaving him! You deserve way
better than that! The hurt will be htere
but it will subside after a while. You'll
be ok
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Aunt WeeWee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2007 Posts: 165 Location: Amherst, VA, 24521
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Posted: 05-22-08 13:26pm
Try telling him how you feel and if that
dosnt work, you need to call it quits....
If your not happy in a relationship there
is no point in being with that person!
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babyboo117
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 May 2008 Posts: 4 Location: ,
Posted: 05-22-08 13:46pm
im really sorry to here that. I am sorta
in the same situation only its not the
same. my boyfriend is just an person to
me all the time and he puts other girls
before me everyday! it sux... like it
really sux. but al i can say is get out
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