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davidgower

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Missionary position intercourse problem
Posted: 03-13-08 11:43am

Hi,

I am married person(4 years). I never had sex before my marriage.
Since the first day of our intercourse i dont feel comfortable with missionary position(man on top). I need to hold my penis ( i guess erectile problem) in one hand during intercourse, so it is very difficult to maitain balance of my body and made me very uncomfortable . As a result i loose my excitation very quickly and fail to ejaculation. On the other hand when my wife is in top i still need to hold my penis during intercourse but at least we can continue till my ejaculation.
Now we are trying for a baby and we read in different website that missionary position is the best for baby making intercourse. But this position is not suitable (as i mention above). We are desperately need a baby now and my wife is kind of depressed now. Can anyone help me please. Should i see a doctor?

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MiseEire

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Posted: 03-13-08 13:12pm

You're only describing two positions out of literally hundreds. Best position for me is from behind "doggystyle". It allows for the deepest and most comfortable penetration. Some people aren't into it I guess (petty inhibitions IMO) but if you're trying for a baby, it might be worth a try.
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antigone

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Posted: 03-13-08 13:26pm

The only reason missionary position is advantageous for impregnating your wife is that gravity does not come into play in that position. This position will allow the semen to stay in the vaginal cavity where other positions allow the semen to drip out. It does not require much semen to get a woman pregnant if she is fertile. She can still get pregnant with the woman on top position. Rear entry or doggystyle can work well too. The main thing is if you want to achieve pregnancy you need to have intercourse and ejaculate in your wife. Whatever gets the job done is what you should do.
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marvel

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Posted: 03-13-08 17:13pm

I think you should try a variety of positions to see what works best with you. The best position for pregnancy is the one that will actually allow you ejaculate inside of her. So try different techniques and see what works best for you.
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